I remember that scene from The Right Stuff when she, stuttering, tells her husband on the phone that the President, LBJ, insisted on visiting her, and John Glenn emphatically says to her that if she doesn’t want him to visit then he will back her up 100% and he’ll tell the NASA reps pressuring her to go take a hike.
And I remember saying to myself that’s the kind of husband I want to be.
I remember that scene (which was also in the book by Tom Wolfe) and while yes, Husband John backed her all the way, it was Annie that first (and last) said no. Tough lady. It’s our loss.
BTW, ANC has a very nice app where you look up gravesites of interest, and it’ll map them out and show your location relative to them. It helps you find them quickly.
Nice obit here, no paywall because it’s part of their COVID coverage:
"In 1982, a reporter for The Globe asked Mr. Glenn, who was then considering a presidential run, whether marrying someone with such a severe stutter had given him pause.
“That never really made any difference,” he said. “I don’t know, maybe it was just that we grew up together with it, and I knew the person she was and loved the person she was, and that was that.”
The Director of Photography for that scene was Caleb Deschanel, father of Emily and Zooey.
I went to Arlington about 20 years ago to look for Grissom’s and Chaffee’s graves. I had to ask at the visitor center and they told me which section to look in. It took a little while, and there was something peaceful and contemplative about not knowing exactly where to go and having to search a bit.
I never saw the movie, and didn’t realize she had speech difficulties. But that one scene in the movie makes me want to go out and get it to watch the whole thing. I wish all spouses supported their SO’s like that. Johnson, if he was protrayed accurately, was an asshole.
I also searched for the Iwo Jima flag raisers, all who are buried there, and a few others. It was a nice, contemplative ‘walk through history’ way to spend a half day.