Can you get her to see that if he is behaving this way now, then imagine an entire future with him not trusting her to have any contact with other men.
It’s a recipe for married-miserable. She doesn’t want that, surely.
I knew that had to be a fraud. The whole thing made no sense otherwise. I was also thinking boyfriend was suspect #1, but I didn’t want to make any accusations.
So now that this is sorted out we have learned that said boyfriend is a shit. Yes, he must really be insecure and dishonest to do such a thing. Yes, he will make a shitty boyfriend/husband. I can see why you would want your friend to break up with him, but it’s her life and her decision to make. The fact she sticks by a guy who did this speaks poorly of her if you ask me. You can at least be a little flattered that this guy considers you to be such a threat.
I can understand how hard it must be for someone with Asperger’s to make friends, but don’t give up. After all, only a few good friends can make all the difference in a person’s life. And you only need one lover! And I gather you’re pretty young, so don’t just chuck it now.
25.So I’m not decrepit yet. Just when all your schoolfriends and uni pals are getting married with kids and you’re still waiting for ur first date it’s a bit gruesome. Especially if you’ve lived by yourself for 7 years. And we Aspie’s need people to look after us. A hamster’s nice but it’s not the kind of company that you can come home to and tell all your troubles to.
I’d take a lot of getting used to though. Living by myself for so long and being such a character I do what I want. Actually getting to someone else being around that you have to think about and take responsibility for would be a big thing to get used to. It gets hard adjusting when I go to visit the family. I forget that my witty commentary on TV programmes is not appreciated by all 
Well its not her. At first it was worrying, now it’s just ridiculous. Apparently her mind is so focused on her new boyfriend she can’t remember not only what I bought her for her birthday or where we went.Eventually after she said she couldn’t remember the name.Fine a general description would do.(it was a museumy place).She remembered my completely fictitious day at the beach but couldn’t remember which year this was(remember we only started chatting in March)as well as what I said on the phone last night or the codeword we agreed so I’d know it’s her. She’s apparently so focused on him that everything else has gone out of head. Including her middle names which I asked her cos it’s unusual and she hasn’t even told him it yet.
This is either the world’s worst case of amnesia ever or a fake