rjung, that was a good article you linked to. I grew up in the Bible Belt (West Virginia) as a Catholic. A lot of fundies there saw fit to treat Catholics as “worshippers of the Whore of Babylon.”:rolleyes: I’m glad I didn’t question my beliefs and become an atheist when I lived back there. I saw a lot of that kind of knee-jerk hatred, and had it directed at me, for being “different.” Yeah, I was gonna poison the water supply and corrupt the morals of society because I had long hair and loved reading more than playing sports. Oh, the humanity.
I’ve also had the lovely experience of having people at work confront me about my atheism. I don’t exactly wear it on my sleeve, but if someone asks, I’ll generally tell them. I’m just that way. I like to be open and friendly. Maybe I oughta learn to lie about it or say, “I don’t discuss religion.” Nah, I’ve had way too many friendly, interesting, and mutually respectful conversations with people to let the shitheads get me down.
One thing I am completely intolerant of is someone trying to “save” me at my house. Door to door preachers usually get from me (in a nice tone of voice), “Oh, I’m sorry, I don’t give a fuck about Jesus. Get off my property.” Works pretty well.
I also avoid places of business with the “Jesus fish” displayed. “I really just want to pay for my coffee and newspaper, not explain to you that I got born right the first time, OK Spanky?”
When a preachy Christian tells me, “I’ll pray for you,” when they hear I’m not a believer, what should I say? “I’ll think for you?” “I’ll respect others’ right to live their own lives for you?” “Oh, fuck you and your condescension, you ignorant fuckwad?” No. Usually I reply with something like, “Thank you, I never turn down good wishes.” The jaws drop. They don’t know how to handle that one.
By no means are most of my dealings with religious people unpleasant. There are those, though, that seem to think they should try to persuade me to see things their way, or failing that, have laws passed to make me participate involuntarily in their beliefs. And this is a common phenomenon in America, it is culturally ingrained.