What she’s saying is that she doesn’t believe in ‘no means no’ for herself; if I guy wants to reject her, he has to have a justification for it that she approves, and “I don’t feel comfortable with this” is not good enough. If a guy was publicly expressing that he was angry, and (in his mind) justifiably so because a woman declined sex with him, she and her pals would be all over him as an example of ‘rape culture.’ But she shields herself behind the patriarchy’s rape culture, specifically the idea that a man isn’t interested in an available woman he’s probably gay (note the use of ‘fuckboy’, meaning a man who lets himself be raped by another man).
She doesn’t appear to be a feminist or someone who actually believes in consent.
One wonders. If a guy’s response to these statements was “sure, good for you…but if you ever FALSELY accuse me of rape you’ll curse the day you ever meet me”.
I kinda doubt her response would be “okay, sounds fair enough to me…let’s go!”
You have been here long enough to know calling someone else a troll outside of the Pit is against the rules, even if the person has been banned for it. Don’t do it again.
I think it means a sexual encounter. When I was younger, it meant a casual meeting, and I would have asked a friend if he wanted to hook up at Grand Central Station while I was visiting NYC, for instance, meaning, basically, “GCS is a central place where we can find each other to visit briefly, want to try?” There’s no way I would say that today unless I was looking for some kinky thrills.
It’s very disconcerting to have words change meaning like that, and there was a brief period when people giggled at me for using “hook up” to mean “casual meeting”. But I’ve learned not to use it that way.
That woman (assuming we are talkign about the same woman) started the date by threatening the guy, and when he redacted consent due to her threats, she became belligerent and abusive. Someone who talks about the importance of consent becomes abusive when a man redacts consent. What reasonable man would date a woman who does that?