I live about 15 miles away from Hartford. Whether or not you’ll like it here depends hugely upon what kind of person you are. If you’re a big city type, thriving on the urban nightlife vibe, then you’ll loathe it. If you like peace, quiet, natural beauty, and more peace and quiet, then it’s heaven.
Hartford itself is essentially part of White River Junction, and on the other side of the river, West Lebanon, New Hampshire. The nice thing about this is that these towns are the closest thing to an urban center we have until you get to Concord NH (~an hour away) or Burlington VT (a little farther). Everyone for miles around comes to that area for shopping. It’s where the few fast food outlets, the Walmart, and the Home Depot are. That area has a small-town sort of feel. WRJ is known as sort of an artsy kind of place. It was on a list of Americas’ top 10 small towns a few years back because it has artist studios, a theater group, and stuff like that. I should also point out that the whole area is quite close to Dartmouth College, if you weren’t aware, which is why I’m here.
Now, in my opinion, you’d be a fool to live actually in town. If you’re going to go the rural New England route, go all the way, and move to somewhere out in the country. My house is in an area that’s right on the border between small neighborhood and rural farm country. I love it there. It’s the kind of place where I can wander around in the backyard in my underwear if I really want to, and no one locks their doors. Our neighbor left for a two week vacation and left all the doors unlocked, because “If anyone really wants in, a lock won’t stop them.” The sky at night is unbelievable when it’s clear. We’ve started gardening because our soil is so amazingly good it would be criminal not to. We’re half a block from the Appalachian Trail, and there are trails everywhere. Vermont residents are virtually required to own a kayak, canoe, and snowmobile. If that’s the sort of thing that appeals to you, then this is a great place.
There are drawbacks, of course. Cost of living is higher than I expected. Property taxes are high, though New Hampshire has no sales tax, at least. Heating costs are going through the roof as well. Winters are, frankly, miserable. I’ve lived through three now. The first one wasn’t too bad, though there were a couple of big storms. The second one was actually incredibly mild. This last one, well, I wanted to kill someone by the end. We had snow on our lawn until the first of April, and for most of the winter it was up to my waist. Generally, you know spring is coming when it’s no longer physically painful to be outside. The other major drawback in my opinion is the driving. Everything is far away. To run to the shops for some milk takes an hour, so proper planning is important. Oh, and food. There are simply no good restaurants around. There are some OK ones, but no great ones. It’s even difficult to find certain ingredients in the stores sometimes.
On the other hand, autumn is utterly amazing and beautiful. There are farms all over the place where you can get good fresh produce (though it’s usually not as cheap as you think it should be).
I don’t know. As I said, it depends on what you want out of life. Me, I love it here. My wife would too if it weren’t for the winters. If you have other more specific questions, I’ll do my best.