I like to think of him reading these threads and quietly noting them for the divorce proceedings while he secures his assets as his lawyer has instructed.
Resorting to calling me fat.
Hahahaha.
You’re losing it.
Your threesome idea though…
You’re fantasies are more scandalous than my banal life. You should write a book.
Others in this thread have been suggesting I’m lying, to myself, to y’all, to my husband.
You suggested I’m not making decisions of my own volition. I was stating that my motivations are pretty transparent, because I’m not a liar.
Not a chance, bucketybuck. Polyamory is for the unattractive.
Oh, the irony. At this stage I’m assuming that Mecute is the Greek goddess of falling objects about to hit the ground with a large messy splash.
Christ, it gets worse. And the indignant cries of “But what about the chil-dren?” are pretty stomach-turning.
No, reason being to bait a bunch of strangers on a message board.
Then I am wondering-why are you still here?
:smack: Oh my goodness, you’re right. Yeesh:
[QUOTE=AprilR]
Faithfulness involves sexual and emotional intimacy. How can one be faithful if you are spreading all that around? It is a choice to have sex, not a need or something you can’t control, so even if you thought you loved someone else, you don’t need to do anything physical about it. Why get into a relationship at all in that case? Do you just like the warm fuzzies you get from being attracted to and attractive to someone, so you seek it out from multiple people? It’s just hard for me to not see that as selfish or short sighted. Long term committed relationships are not all warm and fuzzy, and love requires more than sex and feeling good all the time. Even if my husband falls short in some way or another in fulfilling some need I think I have, isn’t that more my fault for not trying to resolve that and looking inward without going to someone else?
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If the woman who wrote that had a time machine, 2015 AprilR would be sporting a fresh bitchslap right now.
You didn’t answer the question about whether your mom chugged booze and took crack when she was pregnant with you.
And, by definition, your husband’s a cuckold. You’re having another guy provide you what he should be doing. That’s what the word means.
Or…possibly whacking off.
Perhaps your husband is familiar with this saying and is putting things in order.
I get the general idea that you must be a really really unhappy person
What I liked about the poly thread was April’s profound and honest curiosity about lives different from her own.
Or, she was a clueless and obnoxious twit throughout.
I just can’t decide.
The way I see it, cutting off all contact would destroy the fantasy/close off the possibility of having sex with this guy, even if it’s not acted on. That’s the real motivation for maintaining contact. It’s got nothing to do with sparing his feelings.
April, just be honest with yourself at least.
But emotional infidelity is bs? The same person wrote both of those things?
Ooookkkkkaaay then.
That’s really the only arrow in your quiver, isn’t it Chuckles?
I suspect it’s a way to deflect from having to come to grips with yourself being a dysfunctional racist moron. I assume this specific comment comes from me opposing your idea to commit ethnic cleansing against minority people who you see as inferior.
If I am (and I’m not) an unhappy person, at least I’m not a really stupid racist swine like you.
I have no dog in this quarrel but I must say that that thread was one of the most mystifying pieces of stupidity I’ve ever come across here.
That was so old. Get over it. I did.
I’ve amended my stance.
You’ve never done that???