Much too facile.
You believe in a publicly-funded police department? Then you’re a “socialist.” You believe in publicly-funded roads? That’s “socialism.” Pah. Name-calling. What kind of crap is it to say that one party or the other supports “the government trying to tell me how to spend my money”? Are you upset because some of your tax money goes for things like roads, police, public libraries, schools? You think those are all socialist?
There’s way too much tendency today to revert to name-calling that pushes everyone to an extreme. And sound-bites, meaningless pap.
Does it not make sense that there are some areas where the govenrment better knows how to spend “your money” than you do? I would not begin to think that I would know how to build roads, or set up a navy, or run a school. I am therefore willing to allow the government to spend “my money” (taken from me through taxes) on those things.
Does that make me a socialist? or a Democrat?
The other extreme is equally silly. No one is suggesting that government tell me how to spend my leisure money, or where to go on vacation, or which movie to see, or where to invest.
Some decisions are best made by the individual. Some decisions are best made by the group (read: government.)
Yes, I want some regulation. When I spend money to buy a prescription drug, I want to know that it’s been well-tested and tried, and is not a hoax or fraud or dangerous. So I consent to government putting requirements on food and drugs, for my own safety. I would not know how to monitor that on my own, so I suppose that’s the government restricting me from spending my money on some items (like, nuclear bombs are not on sale at K-Mart.)
If you must condense the difference between Republicans and Democrats to a sound bite, it is probably best to say that Republicans would have more decisions made by state governments and fewer made by the federal government; and would have fewer areas monitored or regulated (especially when it comes to big business), than would the Democrats.
But, frankly, the two leading candidates we have now are so centrist as to almost indistinguishable from the broader spectrum of communist (total rule by state) to anarchist (no government at all).