Can’t recall where I read this, but I read an account a while back from a woman who did this too, and she couldn’t get over the number of women who said they had been raped 10, 20, or even more times. :eek: She asked the center’s coordinator, “What are these women DOING to experience thing again and again?” and the coordinator explained to her about sexual abuse, high risk behavior, etc. and that some people (not just women) unconscious put themselves in situation where they will be victimized, often because they feel they deserve it or just don’t know any better.