Thanks to the others for further explaining the definition of vegetarianism!
I also suspect that there is some “trendy” factor in certain women wanting to be called vegetarian, without actually being one. Arggh. I had more of a “chip” on my shoulder about veggieness the year or two after I became one, but that soon wore off and became tiresome. I don’t spend a lot of time preaching or giving meat-eaters a hard time. I still care about vegetarianism, but sometimes, I just want to be left alone, you know? Anyway…
In case anyone has not understood why the “real” vegetarians get so bent out of shape over these fish and chicken eaters calling themself veggie, I have come up with another analogy for ya:
What makes a non-smoker? Let’s say you never smoked, or struggled hard to stop a difficult smoking habit. And then you encounter somebody who claims to be a non-smoker, maybe is even a little self-righteous about it. But, they do smoke a cigarette or two a day. Hey, what’s the big deal? It’s one of those “lite” cigarettes, and it’s just one or two a day! That shouldn’t count, should it? They consider themself a non-smoker, so they are one, right? Aw, c’mon, lighten up! (Pardon the pun ;)) It’s just one or two cigs a day - you can’t really expect them to go without totally, can you?
If you were a non-smoker, especially if you were a non-smoker who had really worked hard to quit smoking, would you think that only one or two cigarettes was “close enough”? Would you consider this person to have displayed the same discipline to not smoking that you had?
That’s the attitude a lot of veggies have seen in these faux-chicken/fish-eating “veggies”. And also the attitude they sometimes get from the people who are fooled into thinking that chicken/fish eating is “close enough”. I am not saying that someone who only eats chicken (or only smokes a cig or two a day) are “bad”, or that I don’t appreciate the effort they’ve made. But a chicken-eater is not a vegetarian, any more than a person who smokes a cigarette or two a day is a non-smoker.
I have some in the fridge right now. I also have vegetarian sausage patties.