Over in GD we are debating whether money can buy happiness.
So, a simple poll (with commentary, where appropriate, about how the two are related in your case)
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Are you happy? Why?
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How would you describe your financial situation?
I have a theory about (2) but I’ll wait for a few responses …
I don’t think I’d use the word “happy.” I think it’s more along the lines of “content.” I want for no necessities, I’m in a position to help those less fortunate than me, and I have my health. Everything’s Jake.
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Not happy at all. Second marriage didn’t work and it changed my outlook on life.
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No bills, money in the bank.
I’m guessing if I went out and did happy things, I would have less money.
Excellent question.
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Mostly happy. There are a few issues in my life (career-related) that I am working on. They are stubborn, but so am I. 
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Our finances are not good due to large debts other than our mortgage. We are in the process of re-financing our home to consolidate these debts, and that prospect looks very promising (taking advantage of our low mortgage and high equity position in a red-hot real estate market).
Kuizelemartz, there is an old saying that life is 10% what happens to us and 90% what we make of it.
As for money buying happiness, I’ve been poor, but I’ve never been rich. I’d be willing to give it a try, and report back to you.
PS:
I think it’s cool that this thread at this point has exactly 11 posts out of 12 views!
Thats a killer batting average right now!
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Are you happy? Why?
Pretty much always. I’m a lot happier recently…
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How would you describe your financial situation?
Not too bad. We make enough to pay the bills and have a little to play with - my debt is almost completely gone (the 11th of this month is my last payment!) and my gf’s is being handled without problem to us (as in she pays the bills every month on it and it’s getting taken care of, but we don’t suffer because of it).
I will say that once I left my job and started being a tutor part time, my income has been a little less but my happiness has went way up!
Brendon
Yep. I have a great family, a loving husband and two adorable (and intelligent) daughters, I get to do pretty much what I want to do, and I have a cheerful disposition anyway.
Fine. Husband is currently looking for a new job, and it may entail a salary cut, which would be kind of a bummer but survivable. We are trapped in our house, because we live in an insane market and if we moved, our taxes would quadruple and the mortgage payment would double, so I’m not thrilled about that. I want to save more. So: I can’t really complain, but things could always get better.