It’s nice to know, rhubarbarin, that my observation of many, many, *many *famous/rich/powerful women having man hands is not so weird after all.
Because several people have commented on it? I have very small hands, and have heard it many times, in all kinds of situations, from casual male acquintances at a dinner table to women having sex with me at the time. It is weird and usually slightly uncomfortable. There is nothing I can do about the size of my hands, yet it seems fair game to bring it up. I’d never think of commenting on similar issues about the people who comment on mine. But people do most certainly notice hand size and have preferences concerning it. Luckily I’m handsome and buff 
Ellen Cherry, hands have extremely limited potential for growth compared to most any other part of the human body, especially considering how much they are used in manual labor or training with free weights. Over the years I’ve increased my weight by half via free weight training, and am more muscular than average, but my hands are practically the same size as when I was a thin guy.
I concur. My son inherited my frame as well, and when he was very thin, his hands didn’t look quite so disproportionate. 4 years in the Army has bulked him up quite a bit, but his “lady hands” remain the same.
No. My SO has smallish, dainty hands. He works damn hard but his skin is softer and better than mine - just more naturally oiled, I guess. He has no callouses and I know he didn’t live a charmed life. Hell, he’s from an Asian family, he had to work like a dog. Spent years in his parents’ restaurant, no burns or scars from that either.
OK, I’ll believe you all. 
Take this for what it’s worth: the smallest hands I’ve ever seen on a man was on Steve Nunn, the son of a former Kentucky governor, a former gubernatorial candidate himself, and a state legislator … who pleaded guilty and was sentenced to life in prison for the murder of his girlfriend.
A tall man, his arms were freakishly short, like barely extending past his waist, and he had these little bitty hands. It probably isn’t as dramatic as I remember, but I was around him several times during his appearances in televised candidate forums. Scroll down to the photos at the story link above; you can sort of see the tiny in the one that’s visible.
Ryan Gosling has small hands. (Seriously! It’s like he’s photoshopped!)
You know who else had small hands?
Yep!
Napolean?
As if. Have you seen what those dudes are up to? You’d probably be considered “uniquely qualified.”
I have to admit that hands are very important to me. Like everybody else, if they’ll admit it, my first glance of a new person tells me if they’re attractive to me. (Not necessarily good looking, but not repugnant.) After that comes their personality which gives clues to their character. And I notice their hands.
I like ropey hands. Doesn’t matter if they’re stubby or have long fingers. I like hands that reflect they’ve lived life; calluses, raised veins from doing manual labor (is scultpting manual labor? because it could come from that.) Capable, doey hands. More than likely people who sport those hands also have striving souls. Anybody who has soft hands, or, MUCH worse, gives a limp-fish handshake, can only get token acceptance from me. That’s my cue to run for the hills. Give me chapped knuckles anytime, over that.
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Crosses off another item from list of topics never discussed on the Straight Dope
When I was a pre-med student, my hands were assessed and I was informed that I would do well to specialize in gynocology where my small, delicate, girly hands would be a positive asset.
I dropped out of pre-med but have since confirmed this view in my private research.
This is…less than reassuring.
My wife’s small hands are, for this exact reason, in demand during deliveries. (It’s veterinary medicine, but the logic is the same.)
“Insertion”
“Fisting”
There, I uttered it… for cryin out loud. :rolleyes: