Hey, thanks for the invite!
Obviously, being a chick and all, I’m not a Mason, nor do I play one on TV. I’ve considered looking into the Co-Masons, who do allow women, but frankly I need one more social obligation like I need another toddler! So maybe in a few years…
My Mason “story” has to do with my son, who was born with a congential scoliosis - several deformed vertebrae and an extra rib, which made his spine curve abnormally. We watched and waited and pondered, until it got to a 59 degree curve and we finally realized that there was nothing to be done but surgery. Which we couldn’t afford. See, we’d changed insurance companies a couple of times through the years, and they declared his scoliosis a “pre-existing condition” :rolleyes:
However, a good friend of mine (a Mason), told me about Shriners hospitals for children, where they do work for absolutely free. (Shriners are a level of Masons, as I understand it. Not all Masons are Shriners, but all Shriners are Masons.) The local one happens to be one of the best orthopedic hospitals in the country, and it was as easy as filling out some paperwork and it was a done deal. The doctor’s visits, diagnosis, major surgery, recovery time - even an MRI at another hospital (because Shriners didn’t have an MRI machine) was covered by Shriners.
They were absolutely fantastic. We never felt like a charity case or anything negative. They truly made us part of the healing team, and it was a phenomenal experience.
Every time we go there for a follow-up visit, there is an older gentleman or two in a funny hat sitting around the waiting room. I try to give them all a big hug and say thank you. If you’re a Shriner and I haven’t gotten to you yet, please consider this a starter hug. Thank you. Because of your work and donations, my son is pain-free and more flexible and fit now than he ever has been. (We actually just got home from a pediatrician visit, and she was amazed at the improvment in him these past two years.) You took a twisted, suffering little hunchback boy and let him become a tall, upright young man - literally. Thank you.