Is this actually true? I haven’t noticed any difference in the tightness of pre-birth and post-birth vaginas; in fact one woman I slept with who had had two children had an exceptionally tight vagina. I think it may have something to do with keeping up you pelvic floor exercises but as IANAG I don’t know exactly.
Nope! In fact, you just made my freakin’ day! 
I do not believe that most men notice any difference pre or post child bearing. I didn’t. However, I am now wondering who would supply a grant to test this hypothesis, and what you would use as objective measurements? I’d bet it was the first paper presented at a medical conference funded by Vivid Video.
So, you say when it’s flaccid it’s almost non-existent? Is that like an inch, or shorter?
I’m a bit above the averages everyone cites when erect, but when it’s flaccid I look like a newborn. Hence, displaying it in it’s flaccid form is out of the question, and forget about it when it’s cold.
I heard some girl mention “showers” and “growers” (they rhyme) once, is than a common thing?
I had one boyfriend that I was shocked by, he was average looking, thin, average height, but boy did he have a massive schlong. Must have been 9" long and about 5" girth. The first time I saw it I was like “Whoa”. He was good with it too, although I always thought he probably never had a decent blow job in his life as only the top third of it would fit.
Then how the hell do you hold the steering wheel when driving your car?
Wise decision.
Friedo, I must admit I was hoping someone would be brave. You are to be commended. I am happy to be proven wrong.
With a point that small he has to…oh, uh…
This may be outside your expertise since you seem quite comfortable with your penis size, but do you have any tips for increasing the confidence of a guy with a small penis? My bf (of 2+ years) has a penis that is on the small side (~4 inches erect) and he absolutely WILL NOT let me see it flaccid. I mean, logically, I know how big his penis is, it’s been two years, I wouldn’t dump him because of how big/small it looks flaccid.
It’s not that I’m dying to see his non-erect penis, but I wish I could help him gain more confidence about the whole issue. Does anyone have advice?
I don’t think there are any tips or tricks. Most people are ashamed of some feature of their bodies and embarassed to let anyone see them naked. I got over a lot of that by simply becoming more confident about myself and recognizing that it’s mostly irrelevent. There’s no trick for that, it just took some time and introspection.
I’ll see your small dick and raise you my fat gut!
I’m well aware of the “showers and growers” thing. And I haven’t met any people in my age range who don’t. So you know.
I second this. My first was rather large, 8" or so, and deeper postions were so uncomfortable that they were almost impossible. I’m much happier with my SO’s average endowment, and we can now enjoy many more positions.
4" is considered “really small”? Shit! I no one told me!
You kinda got me curious so I checked…yep, 4" exactly and I ain’t fat. I am Asian though.
4" isn’t too small as to have any trouble in the sex department so I don’t sweat it. My GF gets off just fine and I can “go deep” without fear of slamming into her cervix and pausing good sex All positions seem to work with 4" as well.
Plus my GF is able to take me completely in her mouth which is really nice!
My girlfriend can only get the end in her mouth!
But thats because she has a small mouth…
Well, there is the joke about slipping the doc a $50 “for an extra stitch” after your wife’s episiotomy 
friedo, have you ever tried (or been tempted to try) any of the various “enlargement products” that flood our email? Pumps, weights, pills, stretching excercises, etc
Ever been to a nude beach or resort? If not, would penis size be a factor in your decision not to attend?
My large breasted cousin Cindy can fit her whole fist in her mouth. Plus, she can put both feet behind her head.
Damn.
Bet you wish you were from the south
Never.
Aren’t most of those places just full of old shriveled naked men looking for naked women? I’d rather go to a strip joint.
Why, they got ones with shriveled naked men closer to your house?