It’s a common belief that women who work in the sex industry are “damaged goods”: i.e., has a history of emotional or physical abuse, self-esteem issues, etc. How does this jibe with your experience?
But isn’t the fact that interracial almost always means “involves Black people” fairly indicative of racial politics in the industry? Or that whether a performer will work with Black people is even something you need to ask about? Or that several famous Black performers have commented on the racism in the industry? Not to mention the derogatory titles of movies, the lower pay given to Black performers, the higher pay requested for IR scenes, the assumption that doing IR will ruin your career, etc. Do you not see any of that, or do you think it’s overstated?
Do your male performers have larger than average penises? How important is size anyway (for filming purposes, that is)?
Have you ever had sex with a woman on a kitchen counter, on a hard tile floor, on a boardroom table, on the dirty floor of a garage, on a pile of boxes in a warehouse, in a horse barn, or in a prison cell?
Some are for sure, some aren’t what I do see almost unilaterally are “Daddy issues” usually from a divorce where she felt abandoned now that could just be because that happens so often and there is really no correlation, kinda like all serial killers have milk in the fridge. But my 20 yrs plus in the biz tells me there is something to this, even a girl as well adjusted as Kayden Kross seemed to be to me she has serious daddy issues.
Mister Rik has already asked you about one of my questions/pet peeve (excessively long blowjob scenes), so here’s another - why do so many porn directors shoot the actress fully-clothed in one scene and fully-nude in the next? I know I’m not the only guy in the world who enoys watching women take off their clothes.
And there’s a niche for people who don’t even want to see the women naked! What’s the acronym; CFNM (Clothed Female Naked Male) or some damned thing? We’re all different.
I’ve got a strange fetish. I’m reluctant to mention it here, but I might. Sites do exist for it. Thank God for the internet or else I might have thought I was a complete wierdo.
Glue? Down coats? Pretty girls smashing fruit with their feet? Wool? Belly inflation? Toes in ears? Am I close?
Another one of those Canadians with a sawing fetish?
More seriously, if you have not already done so, check out the FetLife social network.
Are you currently or have you previously been in a serious relationship (wife, partner, girlfriend, etc.) during the time you have worked in the business?
Does anybody who’s been in porn for a while have a long lasting stable relationship with someone not in porn?
The whole “if you get paid to have sex on film, it’s not the same as prostitution” thing has made its rounds here. What are your thoughts on prostitution? Consider the legal kind first.
Have you ever had to deal with a real pimp? I’d imagine that you would detest that sort of person, given the values you have presented.
Do you know what kind of drug Chasey Lain got into that fucked her up so bad? She used to be a porn goddess, and even had a song written about her by The Bloodhound Gang. She was off the radar for years, but she’s back and looks really worse for wear IMO. Crack, meth, both?
I’ve heard a lot of girls really don’t want a big “porno dick” and that it can be uncomfortable. There are clearly girls that would also mount a rhino if they were paid well enough. What insight on this do you have?
How do you personally distinguish fucking from making love, or do you?
Since you are fine with fucking on camera, it might not be too forward to ask about your masturbation habits, if there are any. If you do it (who doesn’t) how do you do it?
On a philosophical note, what are the best and worst things about porn in general?
You may be the one thanking us in this thread, but I think the information you’ve provided is invaluable for us as a whole.
Heh. I see what you did there.
I realized after the fact that I should have mentioned that I’ve only subscribed to one of kink .com’s many sites, but I’m assuming they use the same basic “standard” for all of them (at least the ones that involve male-female sex), since it appears to be the same people running all of them. In any case, I’ve seen similar stuff on other USA-based “real BDSM” sites - there’s at least a token effort at making it clear that the woman is a willing participant.
What awful news. More than once I’ve become enamored with a performer, only to find out later that she had died. That does tend to be a bit of a boner-killer.
I’ve heard it said that many porn star deaths are actually faked, as a way for them to break away from the business. Is there any truth at all to this? I’d love to believe, for instance, that Trinity Loren and Chloe Jones are happily living out their retirements somewhere in peaceful anonimity, but alas, I very much doubt that’s the case.
Are there any videos that aren’t completely staged? For example, college rules sometimes has like 20+ people in a room naked partying. Seems like they just get them together and let them go to town. Is that how it works?
In some cases its real and a problem no doubt, I have written several times about the titles you mention and I had one black male performer who wrote a piece for me that he titled “I would rather Be Called A Nigger” and he made great points. The industry as a whole is a different issue from whether a particular performer will work with black/hispanic/asian…take your pick.
While the industry is guilty of playing to stereotypes it certainly doesn’t help that youth culture plays to the same stereotypes so you certainly also have a case of life imitating art and vice/versa.
Generally speaking yes, and the importance is guess is purely a matter of market preference.
yes, yes, yes, yes, no, no and no respectively.
I will add…the roof of a downtown highrise in San Diego on a Saturday afternoon, a rave party in Tampa Florida, The parking deck of Macys in Atlanta, The back of a Fountain speedboat on Lake Lanier on a Saturday afternoon, The kitchen of a strip club in Dayton OH. to name a few…