Rather than just fret, I’ll pose a question.
Say you have a female relative or close friend who lives in a big city several hours away. She’s a performer (musician) so she doesn’t keep regular office hours. She has a new boyfriend and an even newer roommate (but you don’t have their numbers), and she has two cell phones but no landline.
If she doesn’t respond to vmail, email or text messages within a couple of days, does this concern you?
At what point do you consider contacting the police?
Note to 20-something Dopers – Call Your Mother!