Let me start from the beginning
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she sent the first message
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I responded
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She sent another message
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I gave my number
That’s where it ended.
She said she doesn’t come to the site that often so let;s chat on some app. I said text me instead. Never got a text=FAKE
Yeah, I don’t use those sites, but it sounds like it might be some kind of spam.
It was a free site and I am still mad LOL
And how many women have you treated exactly the same way … or worse?
Not saying it was our want fake, but maybe she didn’t want to give you her number? A lot of people are very reluctant to give out their phone number to some random person they meet on a dating site. Which is smart, IMHO.
So what is the WhatApps? When I made someone I don’t want it to bee too robotic for too long. And I only suggested the phone because she said she doesn’t come to the site that often. PLus I need to confirm I am talking to a actual women not some man or teenage girl
Today should be much more to your liking. 
FWIW, I think that was the last super hot day we’ll have this year. Usually, there isn’t much above 80 in September and that’s not even all that likely. If we do have one it will be brief, not like last year.
Unfortunately, I have zero tolerance left for even moderately warm weather. Today is barely tolerable. Monday is supposed to hit 80, and I want to claw my face off and scream like a banshee and melt like a tallow candle. I can’t handle it anymore. GIVE ME WINTER DAMMIT.
If you mean WhatsApp Messenger, it’s owned by Facebook, and is the largest cross-platform messaging app in the world. It is encrypted from end to end, which means the only people who can read the messages sent are the people they are sent to. If that is the app she wanted to use to communicate with you, that part at least it’s not a scam.
But the only way to confirm that you are talking to a woman is to talk to her. Texting, by phone or app, will do nothing to differentiate.
I;m old school and like to chat on the site for a min and then the phone and then face to face
None of the snap chat garbage since my last name is not Jetson
If your personality on dating sites is similar to how you behave here, I’d be amazed if women DIDN’T decide against wasting time on you. At best, you’re an immature tool. At worst, aggressively creepy and demanding, to the point that someone might well decline contact with you out of concern for her own safety.
Since the black-and-white stray cat that showed up our yard has decided to stick around (apparently the hunting is good), I have posted its photo and identifying characteristics on lost pet websites.
Judging by the large volume of similar-looking cats reported as lost just on this side of town in 2016, it is obvious that in addition to pets going missing by accident, many people are dumb enough to let their cats run around unsupervised outdoors (and then bemoan the fact that kitty ran off and/or was run over or eaten by predators).
Keep your cat indoors or in a secure outdoor enclosure.
Demanding?
Ok, that was fucking funny.
So you’re ok with being described as, at best, an immature tool, and possibly aggressively creepy, but you draw the line at demanding?
And yes, demanding: you were pushing her to communicate your way rather than the one she wanted. “Your way or no way” sounds pretty demanding to me.
It’s pronounced “Berried” not “Burried!”
Every time someone says “burried” in a serious news story like the Italian earthquake, it totally takes me out of the news into my own shallow head and I have to rewind and watch again.
If it’s a mutual attraction I am not interested in the penpal thing. lets’s move to the phone and set up a meeting while it’s still summer time. Before you know it, it will be cold and dark which makes dating a little more challenging
Or slow down and have an actual conversation. Be interested and interesting enough to make her want to continue it on the phone or in person at some point. You’re desperately trying to get in a relationship before it gets dark? :dubious:
I don’t think he cares about a relationship, since that would involve some degree of regard for the woman in question. He just wants someone around to do what HE wants.