Hey ladies!
Forgive me if I’ve told you all this before, but I forget who’s up to date on what!
I had a polyp removed a couple of months ago. Alas, it wasn’t the magic trick needed to make my uterus do what it should. I was pleasantly surprised that the surgery itself was quick and painless, though. They say they got me up after the procedure and made me walk to the bed to be wheeled back out, but I have zero memory of that part. Are you doing a true general anaesthesia, Sattua, or the twilight thing? That’s what I had, I think. I told them I get sick from the knockout drugs, and they gave me a shot of Zofran IV, which kept me from throwing up in recovery. Hooray for drugs!
I’m two failed IUIs in. The depression after the last one almost killed me - literally - so I’m back on Welbutrin so I can stay alive through the rest of this. The emotional roller coaster is hard. I find myself freezing up when it comes to the big decisions now, because I just don’t know what to do. We can’t decide between letting insurance cover one round (at 50%, so $3500 for us, with meds and cryo fees and FETs extra), or jumping right to the shared-risk program and dropping 20k. I can’t even think about it anymore, and I told my husband it’s his call.
I just won a long fight with my insurance company, which is the only reason they’re covering IVF through the end of the year. We’re about to start that process, maybe taking advantage of the coverage (at least for meds). I’m due to start a new cycle in 2 weeks or so, assuming that we didn’t get pregnant on our own this time, and I’ll be starting on birth control for a few weeks before stims and all that fun stuff. I’m terrified, depressed, excited, angry, crushed, and terrified again. My husband just doesn’t know how to deal with me anymore. Any advice from your end, you guys?
I switched doctors to get away from the condescending jackass, and the new one is wonderful and speaks to me as though I was a medical professional - which I am! She has high hopes for IVF for us, and agrees with me that another IUI isn’t likely to work if two injectable cycles failed. I only got one egg each time even when they boosted the dose. Moving to IVF will give us a better idea of egg quality, and we may be able to explain my “unexplained” infertility.
My niece was born a few weeks ago. She was supposed to come into a world with a cousin already waiting for her. I’m having a hard time being around her, for now, and I’m not connecting with her like I did with her brother, who’s 2 now. I feel so guilty about that, and I don’t know how to get past it.