Yes I did. I can see he was in excellent physical shape, but again, just a face.
I was being serious, and I don’t get the joke, but I’ll cheerfully take credit for it.
I’ve always been attracted to attractive people. I’ve slept with girls and guys. Sexy is sexy, to me.
But I feel bad about it. Guilty, somehow. Not because I’m in anyway ashamed of it, but because really, what girl my age doesn’t claim to be bicurious? I’m not the kind of girl who makes out with other girls at clubs because someone has a camera, or to entice men, or whatever. But I worry about being lumped in with those skanks.
It’s confusing.
Just like week I met a young woman who was visiting my city. She was interesting, charming and clearly a lesbian. While our contact was strictly friendlprofessional, I could just tell that she found me attractive. She seemed like a really neat person and I was strangely flattered and pleased that she singled me out and was sorry that I wouldn’t see her again. Needless to say, my boyfriend found this facinating. 
I think that Ripper was just acknowledging that, although he directed his question towards het guys and girls, there’s no reason it can’t be expanded to anyone who doesn’t identify as bisexual.
Only “sort of”?? You must be doing it wrong. 
It’s okay, Shagnasty. None of use think you’re gay and never would in a million years. Honest.
It’s not guilt, or confusion: it’s insecurity (and possibly a little immaturity). When you are secure in your sexuality and comfortable with who you are, you’ll stop caring whether you’re being “lumped in” with anyone. I’m not saying it’s as easily done as said, but I think you’ll find it to be true. And I don’t mean immaturity like “you’re so immature,” I mean that some things truly do come with age/experience.
Ha!
No, but after reading a number of threads on the subject of sexuality it would lead me to the conclusion that sexual preference may not be as black and white as I previously thought. While I believe it is possible to derive sexual pleasure from a member of the same sex it just never occured to me to try. I expect it would frustrating to those in the grey area if they wanted a long term relationship.
I don’t think so. However, I’ve joked about giving it a shot with various female friends and joined in to several threads asking for your “Top 5” and the like. And since I’m a big proponent of all sorts of equal rights, the other day I thought it necessary to really think about this.
The best I could come up with, going the whole enchilada (or maybe I should say taco ;))? Kate Winslet. I’m not really sure totally why, except that she seems like she’d be lots of fun, is intelligent and pretty, in a ‘real’ woman way. I can honestly, possibly see it.
Where does that put me?
Smack dab in the middle of one of my fantasies, for one… 
I’ve never had the desire to experiment myself, but I can tell when a man in physically attractive.
Just once - there was a girl in a class of mine in college that I was positively smitten with. She was cute, pixeyish, but not drop dead georgeous or anything, and I was just smitten. Looked forward to the class just to see her. I was in a long-term, comitted relationship at that point, so nothing happened, but had I been single I might have approached her. Damn, but she was cute.
Since then, nothing - I recognize when women are beautiful and even point out the ones that I think are cute to my husband, but there’s no attraction there, just a “she’s cute” sort of thing. But that girl in my class? I totally could’ve been with her.
I find some stories of girl/girl action hot, but to put myself in the same situation, I just couldn’t do it. Not that I find it gross or anything, it just wouldn’t feel right. I enjoy the little things about men too much - the feel of a bristly jaw against my face, the muscles, etc…a chick just doesn’t have those things.
Clearly, you never met the girl’s gym coach from the Texas middle school where I once taught.
In 30 years, I’ve yet to find another girl attractive.
Cute, sure. Beautiful on a number of occasions. Aesthetically pleasing, of course.
Just not attractive in the sexual sense.
I’m just not wired that way, I suppose. I’m all about the boys.
Dante, you crack me the hell right up -and- that “officially” made my day (week? month?).
Besides, I’m going to pretend that was soley directed at me instead of the lovely Kate. Hey, it’s my story and I can right it anyway I want. 