Death Cab for Cutie’s “Styrofoam Plates” is in contention to be the new “Better Man”.
*…It’s no stretch to say
You were not quite a father
But the donor of seeds to a poor, single mother
That would raise us alone…
…You’re a disgrace
To the concept of family
The priest won’t divulge
That fact in his homily…
…Just 'cause he’s gone
It doesn’t change that fact
He was bstard in life
Thus a bstard in death, yeah…*
Happy Fathers Day Everyone! 
I can understand that sentiment. However, let’s say I was criticizing a single friend of mine who was jobless, lived with his parents, and had no responsibilities at all, except for playing video games all day and sleeping whenever he wanted. As a “responsible member of society,” I would find him pathetic, lonely and lazy. However, as a parent of two small children, I would envy his total lack of responsibility. So maybe there’s some room for condemnation AND jealousy.