Silenus, it didn’t take much for me to sense that my guy had an incredibly difficult time 'fessing his use of Viagra to me…I’m certain he felt it would be a “deal-breaker”, which only tugged at my heartstrings all the more, and I tried hard, even with my incredible naivety about Viagra, to reassure him. Hopefully I managed it. So your “manhood” comment is taken very much to heart. (My computer is moving slowly this afternoon and keeps timing out when I try to quote other posts so bear with me!)
And mrklutz, extended foreplay DOES sound almost impossible to bear…I can only assure you I will ATTEMPT to be happy about it, somehow.
fir na tine, the undeniable cuteness of this guy will make it hard for me to resist the old “drag 'im down in the doorway” ploy, but I promise to do my best. There are ciompensations. An hour of foreplay can make a gal right forget anything else she mighta had in mind for next time.
Grossbottom, thanks for sparing the sheep, but I hope your 36-hour spree wasn’t wasted on other farm animals or too many boxes of tissues, and the girlfriend got the bulk of the prize winnings. I’ll have to let you know how the effects of Viagra vary from your experience on Cialis, altho you are significantly younger than my guy and I am learning from you all that, absolutely, MMV!
Did I mention that that “foreplay” thing is really, really…not at ALL distressing??
Oh - and it’s prohibitively expensive. I have found, though, that the higher dosage is just as expensive as the lower and the pills can be halved.
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Thankfully this isn’t MY issue at the moment. But it is good information!
Of course, you realize that we’re entitled to a debriefing, so to speak.
I’m only an occasional user as well, but in my experience while prolonged sessions are possible, they’re not mandatory. Go again, take a nap? Depends on the stim I recieve. In the absence of stim, V will do nothing; if it gives you inconvenient wood at the dentists, I suggest counseling
Years ago when I had dangerously high BP my (then) GF made me ask my doc if we were allowed to have sex. His response was as often as I want as often as she would let me. He even said he’d give me some Viagra. I assured him that this was not why I was asking, but when I got home I found some samples in the bottom of the bag of BP samples.
Yeah, EVERYTHING’S sexual when you are discussing sex, I’ve discovered. You have to go out of your way not to trip over innuendos right and left!
outlierrn, TONIGHT’S the night! He’s making paella (somehow I landed a fabulous cook in with the package) and I am actually staying the night! I haven’t stayed a night at a man’s house in over a year (and then it was only my ex-boyfriend’s place, nothing THIS exciting)…I packed my BEST overnight case, reminiscent of Grace Kelly’s little “briefcase overnighter” in “Rear Window”, tho I skipped the flowing negligee in favor of sexy panties and a lace push-up bra…takes up a LOT less room. By this time tomorrow I will join those of you with “experience” and I can be equally as expressive. So, yes, definitely, plan on some follow-up!
Doom Slinger, I will enlarge upon (stop giggling, ChefGuy!) the “accident” tomorrow, I want to be sure I have my facts straight first. It did involve some missteps during sex with the ex, and a trip to the emergency room…you’ll have to be satisfied with that until I make sure I have the story right.
Tomorrow, then, friends—all the kissing and telling I can muster!
At the risk of being a spoilsport: just remember that the internet is forever. Indulge our lascivious fantasies, (please!), but remember that your kids might trip over this site some day.
My sons are 18 and 16, and I doubt anything I could do in any way would impress them, even on an intimate level. THEY both know it ALL, of course, and are willing to express that to me on a daily basis. I’m just an old, uncool mom, ya know.
Nonetheless, I am the soul of discretion when I want to be, so warning heeded!
For those of you interested in a follow-up, all this newly-wise girl can say is, ALL OF YOU WERE RIGHT!!
VIVE LA VIAGRA!!! Kiss kiss, bang bang and all that. And a LOT of it!
First of all, HALF a diamond did just fine, as one of you pointed out. My guy was NO hatrack, as another pointed out, and also all “activities” took place only upon stimulation, there was nothing “raging” all by itself without some touching or, uh, OTHER stimulation on my part involved, as was also suggested. Sheep in the surrounding 15 miles (this IS Montana, after all!) would surely NOT have been safe, had there not been a much more eager prospect at hand (namely myself, of course). There were definitely orgasms on both sides, and morning sex, well…I can only recommend it HIGHLY while under Viagra’s magic spell. There was EXTENDED foreplay, as one of you promised. Oh yeah. Sincerely extended. No lightning bolts, but I didn’t really notice their absence. I was too busy. Think I saw whole galaxies of STARS a few times tho. I daresay my guy DID feel godlike, however, as one of you said as well. I only hope I contributed to that feeling with the attention I lavished!
I can’t thank all of you enough for your contributions to ensure my very happy evening. In fact, I am a walking, talking Viagra Infomercial today, so if any of YOU have any questions, ask away. I would DEFINITELY do that again, just as many of you have!
Dopers are especially a girl’s best friend. Thanks all!
