Yup. Sexuality is just such a complex confsuing thing. Heck…even at 30 I’m still not sure if I’m full on lesbian or bi. Even the girl in my high school class who was so screaming gay that everyone in the class knew she was gay back in second grade had a tough time figuring out she was gay. The only person I know who didn’t have a problem with same sex attraction, is my current girlfriend…and she was all confused a few years ago when she realized she liked guys too…LOL
Bisexual?
On the other hand, I suspected/expected/detected it a long time ago.
As a gay man I agree one sexual’s orientation is NOT a choice.
But a sex act does not a homosexual make nor does it make a straight man.
I could have sex with women all I want, but I still wouldn’t be straight. I would be a gay man having sex with women.
Did you notice as each year went by her outward appearence was gettig more and more “butch,” simlar to Rosie O’Donnell and Ellen DeGeneress
I notice that of a lot of post-menopausal women. (But Ellen DeGeneres does not look “butch” to me.)
Older people of both sexes tend to be somewhat more androgynous than younger people. Look at some really elderly people, and often you really can’t tell who is what.
And this is true of pre-pubescent kids as well. Our biology exaggerates our masculinity/femininity during the years when we need it most. The circle of life.
Have you ever seen year-by-year photos of Jamie Lee Curtis???
I recall seeing Meredith Baxter in Family Ties. I always thought she was cute, but not all that sexy. Then one night I watched the Breast Cancer movie she made. There’s a scene in there that nearly knocked me off the sofa. Who knew Mrs. Keaton was stacked? 
The way Meredith dresses you’d never suspect she’s related to Dolly Parton. 