So I hooked up with this guy a couple weeks ago. Totally hot sex, and he’s said when we’ve talked online that he wants to get together and, like, go on a date. We are supposed to be getting together, um, pretty much right now. The plan was he was going to be out and about today, home by 5:00 and would call me to finalize. There were, to be blunt, promises made of certain sexual favors after dinner and a movie.
It’s 6:42 and no phone call. I could call him, but I’ve been the one who’s initiated every attempt to get together and if he says he’s going to call with that level of specificity as to timeframe then I expect him to call.
Meanwhile, I’m starving and have literally no food in the house.
I ordered pizza. Basic extra cheese because I have a lovely variety of toppings that I can put on it once it gets here.
When it does get here I plan on turning this thread into a “why are gay men so fucked up and why must they play these stupid games” thread, so be warned.
Oh no you don’t, Otto.
First off, If you are going to go that route start a new thread in the BBQ Pit.
Second, every sexual denomination plays those games, not just gay men.
IMHO - ask him. He might have had a good reason and not been able to reach you. He might also be awful at keeping in touch. But likeliest is that he doesn’t really care. Then ring him if you want sex and are happy with that and don’t if you want someone who cares.
Well, I doubt I’ll see him on the street or anything. I may bump into him online. I’m always willing to give someone a second chance, and I did (sort of) stand him up once (it was only going to be a booty call, though, if he was still awake, and I ended up picking up this hot Mexican that night instead and the guy said he understood) so if he has some plausible explanation I’ll give him another shot.
