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And badchad is kind enough to provide his own examples of how on the one hand he has good, strong points worth thinking of:
That bit I bolded near the end is something that does give me pause: why indeed should someone in the more liberal school of any religion act all censorious towards the more radicals?
And indeed, there is no need to kowtow needlessly. Being frank and firm is not the same thing as being rude.(HOWEVER… the converse is also true.)
… BUT then of course, he also shows how the other hand he can be quite the dick about it:
Unfortunately, in the Real World of Real People, “Fuck you, we’re right!” is just as effective as the curses PRR gets in hate-mail. All it says is you are yourself an absolutist on your side of the issue, and you’ve made it MORE than just a matter of fighting for truth because it’s good to do so, but have made it a matter of crushing your opponent. (FWIW, “Fuck you, we’re right!” is the official George Bush policy towards the opinion of the international community. Lotsa good it does anybody…)
And that “made him my project” campaign to destroy someone who, though held in high personal esteem, had already made it patent that he should not be held to speak in the name of any institutional interpretation of Christianity but his very own? Speaks volumes to your character; you talk of not fighting ignorance for our own selfish interest, but reveal a streak of pleasure in the carnage. Not for me, thank you very much. If an idea I disagree with neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg, I have no need to go after it and its supporters all guns blazing, and it pains me not that it may pass later rather than sooner.
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I thought something along these lines when I read that post. You’ve expressed it better than I could have. Thanks.
What irks me about posters like DerTrihs and **BC
** is that when you point out to them how their behavior is so similar to those they decry, or that portions of their argument are just equally wrong mirror images of the beliefs they are bashing they retreat to simple denial and misdirection, which is another tactic they ridicule in others.
To response to some of your points. IMHO the more liberal schools of religion have a better live and let live attitude. I have my beliefs and I respect your right choose your own path providing it doesn’t pick my pocket or break my leg, to borrow your phrase. There’s also a difference between believing in something on speculative and subjective evidence and believing something in spite of serious objective evidence against it. Even then, if someone believes the Bible was written by God and focuses on love thy neighbor I won’t hammer them on the subject. If someone pulls a verse out of context and tries to use it to suppress the civil human rights of gays then they need to be fought.
In language I have little problem with people saying “I believe this” I feel this way about it" " I think this is true" because they are taking ownership of their beliefs. When their language changes to “God said, The Bible says, Jesus says” in a way that implies it is not just their interpretation but an absolute truth, I have a problem. In a similar way when our more extreme atheists assert their own opinions as “the obvious truth” I have a problem. To me it indicates a mind that is more interested in asserting it’s ideas rather than understanding others.
I agree our society has a misunderstanding over what rude actually means. Being truthful, frank and direct are not rude. In many cases they are acts of consideration and respect. Add those qualities to a touch of diplomacy and someone can really win my respect and admiration. As my brother says, “Free speech is a right, not an obligation”