You know, assholes are assholes. Asshole theists are assholes, asshole dogcatchers are assholes, asshole atheists are assholes.
Y’know what I mean?
I’d rather be around some of the nice, friendly, helpful people who also happen to be religious, than assholes who aren’t religious.
For example, we have lots of friends who are Christians. When our power was out for 8 days due to the windstorm here, Christians let us use their showers, let us stay in their homes, let us put our food in their freezers, cooked us meals. A Jewish guy lent us a generator. Our friend who believes in astrology and homeopathy had us over in her warm home many times.
Now, I suppose since I’m an atheist, I should have screamed at them that all their niceness was due to a delusion and faulty thinking, and that all their attempts to help us were vicious lies. But for some reason, I didn’t. I actually appreciated their helpfulness.
Now, if our positions were reversed, would I have helped them in the same way I was helped? Absolutely. I, the atheist, would have helped my theist and religious neighbors. And plenty of other atheists would do so as well. Niceness–in my opinion–has nothing to do with theism or lack of theism. That these nice people blame their niceness on God is a bit baffling to me, but the nice thing is that they’re nice anyway. I think nice religious people are nice because that’s just the way they are, not because they think God is looking over their shoulders. And the screaming bigoted religious people aren’t psychotic because God (or rather belief in God) made them psychotic, no, they’re assholes because they’re assholes, and God had nothing to do with it.
So what’s the point? I’m not going to scream and berate nice people, even if those people believe in astrology or transubstantiation. If they want to get into a religious debate with me, I’ll disagree with them…but as politely as they disagree with me, I’ll disagree with them. Heck, according to my personal ethics, I feel I have an obligation to argue on a MORE polite level then the people I argue against. Yeah, it’s a simple trick that confuses them. The point is, politeness is often an EFFECTIVE tool. See, my ethics are based on results.
I will get no satisfaction from being hounded into the wilderness to live my life as a hermit, muttering to myself, “I’m right, and all those deluded fools and idiots are wrong. Wrong, I say!” What good does that do? An ethical system that results in misery and hatred is a poor ethical system, an ethical system that results in happiness and niceness is a good ethical system. By their fruits shall you know them. But the funny thing is, Jesus was wrong, a bad tree CAN produce good fruit, and a good tree can produce bad fruit.
So sure, Christianity is no more justifiable than belief in Zeus. Jesus was just a guy, and I disagre with many of the ethical principles he is attributed with. But what does that have to do with the price of eggs? Does that mean that Christians are unfit to be associated with? That they should be treated without mercy? That every conversation with a Christian should be prefaced with the disclaimer that said Christian is either ignorant, a liar, or a lunatic?