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It’s possible to disrespect a belief, and yet still treat a person with respect, you know.
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Sure, but it’s dishonest, if it’s the sort of false or disgusting belief that reflects badly on the holder of that belief. Do you treat racists with respect ? Homophobes ? Fascists ?
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Pretty much. Of course, there is the bugaboo in which various people make “respect” a one-definition-and-it-is-mine word, making Humpty Dumpty proud.
There is respect for the belief or actions, an action that does, indeed, require that the respect be earned.
There is also respect for the humanity of the person, regardless of beliefs.
I prefer to not go about spitting on persons whom I know to be racist or homophobic–or haters of all things papist or middle aged white males or of several other categories into which I fall. There are people I know who have expressed hatred for one or more categories of identity into which I may be sorted, sometimes knowing I am “one of them” and sometimes ignorant of that fact. I do not see where that gives me the right to refuse to help push their cars out of snowbanks, to refuse to pick up their trash barrel blown into the road by a high wind, to drag my feet creating a report they need at the office, to refuse to fix their vB tags when they post a typo, or to refuse to answer their questions about how this board operates, (either technically or culturally). I do not see where their behavior gives me the right to throw trash on their lawn or toilet paper in their trees or to speak ill of them to other persons or to disparage them as persons.
I may defend myself against direct personal attack and I may make observations about their behavior, but I also believe that I must show respect to the person, regardless of their belief. (And I am sure that I periodically fail in that obligation, but it is still an obligation whether I succeed or fail.)