I’m a 19 year old guy who about a year ago developed a condition where I lost hair diffusely on my scalp. No treatment for it and it looked sickly so I opted to shave it to the skin. People say it looks good on me, (surprising as I’m a skinny paler guy) that I have a good face and head shape. And people who don’t know my age have told me I look 21-22 so it didn’t age me really either thankfully. Truthfully I don’t mind it, it’s just hair and doesn’t make or break me personally. However I really am worried about what girls my age will think. I’ve never had a legitimate girlfriend and I can admit looks are a first step to attraction and something real and know it’s the same for girls. I have decent standards and I can respect them having the same. That being said I’ve read so many posts about guys who lost hair young saying they used to get all the ladies and lost hair young and don’t get any attention from a woman under 30. ( nothing wrong with that age but at 19 I’m sure you see my issue) so I want to know, will this make dating or attracting girls my age that I’d be interested in much more difficult now? Like I said I have decently high standards but I’m serious about it , in the end you only need one I’m not like some guys who do one night stands from girls they meet at clubs etc. And women, preferable young women but all opinions are welcome, is a guy with a shaved head less attractive or a turnoff? Is it a deal breaker for dating/attraction to you? I appreciate honesty even if it’s not what I want to hear. Thanks for your time.
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Of course they can. A shaved head is perfectly normal, even on a younger man, and not super distracting like having shaved eyebrows.
I had no problem finding women before and after shaving my head, when I was in that age range. AFAICT, shaved heads are still in style enough to make it a non-issue.
I have two fairly friends that went bald pretty early. One around your age - one hid it with a toupee until a little older than you - late 20s I think. Neither had trouble finding women - and are both married now. Bothe are married to women I think are pretty darn attractive.
One thing that may have helped them the one guy who was always bald since I knew him - never seemed insecure about it - or wore a hat (that I can recall). And once the other guy made the change - he seemed totally ok with it.
Plenty of women have commented they like the fact I have a nice head of hair, but more than one have also told me they find my one friend very hot.
Not every woman is going to be into that look, but for those that are - you’ll have your pick at this age. I say don’t hide it and just make it part of who you are.
Oh I’m sorry, I never really used a forum site before.
Thank you! Like i said to me it was just hair, I came from a military family so I as raised to know what mattered and what didn’t, and when I seen on other forums I figured all the guys saying hairloss was the end of dating for them I figured they were placing too much blame on it or hiding because of it, until I realized all the posts said it was the end of dating, in which case I hoped that the successful shaved guys were too busy living than posting on some negative hairloss forum. So thank you for proving that hope right that plenty still are successful.
If you are a white guy, you will need some facial hair. Bald white guys can look like giant thumbs or cancer victims. A goatee or a soul patch will be fine.
if you’re a black guy…you’re probably good to go.
When I first shaved my head, I was around 35. The most noticeable thing was the number of women who asked if they could feel my head. 
Been shaving ever since.
I have observed this behavior from high schoolers, as well, on multiple occasions.
In your opinion.
Not universal. Like others, I’ve also seen no average difference in my attractiveness to the ladies based on whether or not my head is shaved. And I can’t grow any facial hair to save my life.
Well, sorta no difference. Now I’m balding, so it’s higher with my head shaved.
Of course, my personality brings the actual value right down again. But that’s another story. 
I’m white but taking courses for skydiving and we are not allowed to have facial hair with the agency I jump for, that and the condition makes my facial hair patchy almost too, most all my hair is affected except thankfully eyebrows.
This is good. If you personally don’t give it much thought, or care one way or the other, chances are that the girls won’t either. Girls are sensitive to insecurity. Hair, probably not so much.
In my experience, anyway.
I first shaved my head when I was about 20. Not because I had to, but just because I thought it looked cool. And because I was sick and tired of hair. I always had trouble keeping the stuff looking right, it would always end up a scruffy mess. Impact on my dating life? None one way or the other, really. My girlfriend liked it. But she liked me with hair, too. Much the same thing for later partners.
These days, as I said, I’m balding, so shaving is the way to go.
My guess is that you’ll be just fine. And the less you worry, the more fine you will be. It’s not a big deal.
Good looks can be helpful, but there are very few Brad Pitts out there.
Personality is what really matters. And what girls are looking for more than anything is self confidence. If girls see that you are kinda shy about the fact that you are balding, they will be turned off big time. If they see you are hiding yourself under a wig or a hat, they are not going to find you attractive.
Forget what you look like and focus on exuding self confidence. If you do this, girls aren’t even going to care if you are bald or not. (But do wash your face and wear clean clothes.)
this is it right here … It’s not a good look at all if you’re constantly hiding under baseball caps … and eventually that insecurity becomes you if you’re not careful … it’s best to just completely own it and not a give a @$# … how you carry yourself is ultimately what will make or break you, not the hair
Absolutely; you’ll be fine. I had my head shaved for a while in my mid 20s (partly because I got annoyed at paying for haircuts), and I still had attention. And it wasn’t even a great look on me. It’s a distinct look, though, so it gets noticed. That isn’t a bad thing.
I also found one advantage of having a shaved head was that hats fit better. If you can pull off wearing a decent hat, it can be worth trying.
I’m a girl, and I’ve always been jealous of bald guys. It must be so easy to just be able to wash your head like you’d wash your cheeks.
Oh, and IMO, soul patches are awful. It looks like you didn’t quite get everything with your napkin.
The main issue with shaving your head is, well, actually having to shave your head. It’s a bit of a chore sometimes. These days, whenever I let what hair I have left grow out some, it’s because of laziness. And then I look terrible.
If I could zap it all and never have any of it grow back at all, I’d do that in a heartbeat. Actually, maybe I could do that. Does the technology exist?
True, I hadn’t considered the constant shaving annoyance. Laser hair removal is fairly common among women, and I imagine some places would do it on the head. I remember someone telling me about it a while back, and apparently you go in a few times and they basically shine really, really strong light into the follicles. After a while, hair doesn’t grow back.
Another balding head shaver here and I must agree. It’s much harder to do a good job on my head than one might imagine. I buzz it “to the wood” once a week, and sometimes even this seems like a giant pain in the ass. I guess being bald and loving it has made me extra lazy in this department - I now resent the 10 minutes per week I spend on my “hair”.
To the OP, my experience has been that a bald head worn proudly is seen as confident, and confidence is attractive to the opposite sex. So buzz that skull and stand proud. You’ll always be the first to know when it’s starting to rain.