Glad I could help before the fact!
You’ve probably spotted the answers to some of your questions in the other thread (I’d be going as a mature student, for example), but I should also point out a few other things:
– As you know, you’ll have to write the LSAT. If you stop by the local law school, you should be able to get a copy of the latest LSAT Registration and Information Book. (Or the information is also online, but maybe I’m a little old fashioned; I prefer the book format.) It will explain the days and times when you can write the test, and the fees and so on, and explain how you can register online or by mail. If you can afford it (it’s about Cdn$156) and have the inclination, you might want to get that out of the way while you can. Your score will be valid for a few years, so you needn’t worry about writing the test too soon.
– Do some research now. Call a few schools and have them send you their law school’s course calendars and whatever other information they can think of. Have a few questions ready also. Yes, this information is generally online as well, but I found that the people whom I’ve spoken with are most helpful, and they will often fully explain things that their websites explain poorly or not at all. Incidentally, I’ve found very little online course work for Canadian schools; it seems to be mostly classroom instruction.
– Don’t worry too much about gathering material (undergrad transcripts, references, etc.) so you can hand it in with your application all at once. I’ve been finding that schools will open a file when you apply and then are willing to receive things as they come. They probably won’t accept a transcript from you, preferring to receive it directly from your undergrad institution; nor are they likely to accept your word on an LSAT score–they’ll get it directly from the LSAT people. They may also specify that your referees send material directly to them. But their material, their websites, or their phone contacts can let you know just what you’ll need and how they’ll receive it.
I can’t help with how your family will be affected, I’m afraid, but I’m sure that if you go to the local school, things will be fine–so Dad doesn’t head for the office in the morning, but to school instead, and he has lots of homework besides. But that’s ultimately your call to make and your circumstances to consider.
Again, good luck, Grey. Keep us posted on what you’re finding and how things are going.