Far as I can tell, I’m all for them both.
I don’t even understand what someone is telling me when they find anything wrong with either, but maybe I’m not seeing what I’m doing wrong.
For example, I don’t watch much sports anymore, and specifically I don’t watch the NFL. I haven’t seen an NFL play in five years now, out of sympathy for Colin Kaepernik. I decided that the NFL was being racist when this guy couldn’t get a job in the NFL because he protested racial inequities by kneeling before a game, so I decided to see if I could go a whole season without watching a game. So far, I’ve gone five, and I don’t miss it.
And I used to be a fan. Not the nuttiest fan in the world, but I used to spend a few hours every Sunday in front of my TV, and talk about the games with friends, etc. Now I don’t.
I don’t think I’m accomplishing much by my personal boycott. Maybe if the subject comes up, someone will find my reasoning persuasive, but I don’t really put much effort into explaining my position. I just feel better for not supporting the NFL in any way.
Best as I understand this, I am practicing cancel culture and virtue signaling by boycotting the NFL, and being open about it. My argument is, Why should I support something I think is fundamentally flawed? It’s like that with baseball, too, or almost: I USED to be a nutty MLB fan—I even made part of living writing about baseball for five years. I might know more about the game than anyone on this site, and if I don’t it would take a very long contest to decide the winner, but I detest the DH rule, and I’m thinking that if MLB adopts it universally this season, as they say they will, that’s it for me. No more baseball.
Why would anyone care what I choose to watch, or not watch? I’m aware that I’m being symbolic in boycotting these things. I just don’t want to be a part of things I disapprove of.
Isn’t this how capitalism is supposed to work? If I patronize a restaurant but I find out the owner is a Nazi, or a religious nut, or a sex offender, and there’s another restaurant almost as good at scrambling eggs, doesn’t it simply make sense for me to switch restaurants? Aren’t I entitled to feel good, or at least not to feel bad, about putting my money in the hands of someone I disapprove of? If I learn that the owners of Home Depot and Lowe’s hold political views I disapprove of, why not drive an extra mile to pick up a box of screws at an independent hardware store?
Sometimes there’s not even any animus involved. I subscribe to a website where the proprietor is practically a saint—donates all the proceeds to good causes, is very knowledgeable about the subject of the website, and seems like a kind and humble man personally. But he features a Q-and-A section on his website that is very poorly run. I post a question and I find that my question is “awaiting moderation” for days, sometimes weeks, while other people’s questions (they’re all dated) are answered immediately, so I complain “What’s going on here?” and the answer I get is “Oh, your question was fine, that one slipped through the cracks, sorry, my bad” but this keeps happening over and over and over, so I decided not to continue my subscription and to tell him politely that this was the reason.
Did I ‘cancel’ him? Am I virtue signaling? Or just using my small power, the subscription fee, to emphasize my message that I really wish he’d improve that part of the site?
I don’t understand what people are saying when they speak pejoratively of cancel culture and virtue signaling. To me, they’re positive ways of emphasizing my positions.