Cesario: shut the fuck up, you gross fucking asshole

I guess this is where I differ. I only think it rises to sort of disgusting: the universal revulsion he is experiencing for who he is is more disgusting. Maybe if people didn’t fly off the handle any time he so much as posts even if it’s completely innocuous, they would be able to focus more on the actually pretty creepy one or two posts he has had (such as in the flirtation thread.)

FWIW, the original “Ask the Gay Guy!” thread was started on March 2, 2000 – ten years ago next month – which I believe was less than a year after the board was opened.

Absolutely. How dare anyone act as though what the man is suggesting is anything other than a slight aberration? Why it’s almost as if he’s endorsing an act that goes societal mores dating back millenia.

There’s a good (biological) reason people react to child molesters they way they do. The herd reaction is to protect the young from predators.Cesario is a predator, no matter how he portrays himself. Speaking in a reasonable tone does not in any way detract from that simple fact.

It’s great that you can calmly consider the situation in abstract. We are not discussing an abstract situation in this particular case. We are discussing a reality, and you are advocating encouraging the actions of someone who goes to great lengths to justify them. Even suggesting that he be allowed a forum to ‘reasonably discuss’ so that people can ‘better understand’ reinforces his belief that his unhealthy sexual preferences are simply misunderstood by the majority of people here and elsewhere.

It is not okay.

Could you explain to me how endorsing or encouraging child molestation has anything whatever to do with ‘left’ politics? This statement is ignorant even by the standard you normally set.

No, you’ve got it backwards. AFAICT raindog is disputing drachillix’s assertion that a thread about gay people or a black president would have met with similar condemnation in the “early days” of the board, saying unless the board has taken a sharp turn to the left, such threads would never have been condemned. (Which is true, as I showed.)

That was me (assuming you mean “babysit”), and I see no reason to change that opinion so far.

Ah, then I apologize and retract my earlier comment. Instead allow me to say that I’m dismayed raindog actually drew a correlation between threads advocating homosexuality or a black president on par with threads advocating child molestation. Dismayed, but not surprised.

I think you (and some others who have expressed similar views; your post is just the closest to quote) grossly overestimate this board. We have uneven moderation, censoring of certain words, and vague, capricious rules. That doesn’t exactly set the stage for civil discourse.

This really isn’t the smartest, coolest place on the internet. Sorry. I know it’s probably not OK to say that and may make me less popular than a pedophile around these parts, but this is bullshit.

QFT

S/he didn’t. Drachillix did. That’s the point. And raindog was disputing that assertion.

Seeing as how the thread is only a day or so old, at this point I only fantasize about pumping it full of jizz…

I have only just found out about this cunt, and i imagine i will get a warning for saying this, but will someone please put a brick to the back of his fucking skull?

I have never felt dirty reading message board posts before… but that sick fuck did it to me.

You’re lucky there is no God you dirty fucking pervert. The kids you have touched will never be the same, and the kids you will touch will never do anything to deserver what you’re gonna do to them.

Please please PLEASE jump in front of a fucking train.
Save some lies.

What’s the record for warnings/suspensions/bannings in one thread? Is there an over-under? Who wants action?

It’s not a “very unpopular belief.” It’s a physchologically and physically devastating act with often terrible consequences for the child involved. One of my dearest friends remains childless because she was molested at five and wound up with a sexually transmitted disease. Advocation of that act is inexcusable.

As Giraffe pointed out Cesario drags his vile point of view into every single goddamned thread he posts in. He should have been banned a long time ago.

Good question. I think I’d like to place a sawbuck on Jump getting warned for the post above yours, as its a clear violation of the rules, which are consistently enforced, and, um…yeah.

Wow. And here I thought you were unduly troubled by the negative reaction men get when they attempt to be friendly out in public. Instead, you’re a pedophile apologist.

It’s only “sort of disgusting”? Our reaction at his predilection is more disgusting? How is sexually assaulting an infant/toddler for your own pleasure not horrifying? I have yet to see a “completely innocuous” Cesario post. That’s the problem–he never talks about baseball or movies or what he had for dinner. He is a one trick pony, but he has done us all a favor: we know just how obsessed he is and what he really is (and he’s loud and proud, too!). Shunning him is easy. You’re a piece of work.

I was way too nice to you the first time. If I had small children, I would indeed give you the Evil Eye and keep them away from you. I doubt highly you’re bent Cesario’s way, but you come across here as an enabler of Cesario’s ilk. That gets you on my “do not fly” list (if, of course, I even knew who you were in RL).

And you have the effrontery to decry the shunning that men get in public. Cesario is mentally ill; you are batshit insane. I have less trouble having pity for Cesario than I do for you. He was most likely abused as a kid himself; what’s your excuse?

As I said before, seems to me the your view of the world is a bit skewed.

It has to be for someone to think that the way he’s treated here is worse than wanting to fuck babies.

Put in real terms, whether Cesario is being treated fairly or unfairly here, he will only suffer hurt feelings. Fucking children, OTOH, has long lasting and permanent impact on the abused.

Please notice your username before making comments like that.

For who he is? Sorry, try again. Look, the guy pops a boner looking at Baby Gap commercials; that’s his problem, but that’s not why people are jumping on his shit for being goddamn disgusting. People are jumping all over his shit because he doesn’t acknowledge that there’s anything wrong with an adult fucking a child. He thinks *we *have the problem, and that laws against kiddy porn and kiddy fucking are oppressive and unfair. It’s mind boggling. Typing this sentence out makes me batty: He doesn’t think there’s anything wrong with fucking children. He recognizes that it is illegal, and he thinks the law is wrong, not that he’s wrong.

Thank you.

And you correctly characterized my posts.

Thanks for the clarification.

And its he, fwiw.