My daughter wouldn’t understand what sex is, so there’s no real way she’d want to have sex with you because she doesn’t know what it is.
I’d be willing to bet that in 100% of cases where the child is into you they will be traumatized by the experience.
Your penis is as large as a child’s forearm, so you would cause actual physical trauma for certain. The emotional trauma would be a necessary byproduct of the child having their vagina/anus torn open. People in general, not just children are traumatized by excruciating pain. If you were doing it out of love you wouldn’t do it at all because you wouldn’t want to cause the child pain, even if they wanted it.
So yes, I am certain there is no such thing as a child wanting it, because they don’t know what is coming. Lots of adults who lose their virginity are traumatized by regrets, let alone children. They like your attention and affection, but you are conflating that with a sexual impulse that simply isn’t there. They want to hug, not fuck.
You fundamentally do not understand children and their actual motivations. Children are highly sensual creatures. This can be easily mistaken for sexuality.
I think it’s good that people keep being reminded that his victim was a child. It is relevant that his victim was a child.
It’s one of the chemical castration drugs. It’s similar to Depo-Provera. I’ve seen the effects – loss of facial hair, breast growth, and dramatic (though not total) reduction of sex drive.
She would be. The psychological torture would come from being a rape victim.
Can you provide an example of homicide laws ever protecting anyone?
Would you prefer he post on boards with most participants under 13? Think of it this way - any time he spends here is time he is NOT spending around young children. Isn’t that the lesser of two evils?
I didn’t say it worked. (It doesn’t, and that also goes for every other argument you’ve used to this point.) I said that’s your posting strategy.
You brought up the whole pedophilia topic. If you didn’t want some approval and didn’t think you could convince anyone that you are right, you wouldn’t be posting about it. And yes, you want to justify it.
From your posts about wanting to have sex with children age 10 and under. Assuming you are telling the truth about being a pedophile you’re talking about having sex with people not capable of meaningful consent. Of course I have no way of knowing if you’re telling the truth about yourself.
I understand that there’s a difference, but the consequences were the same for me whether he was a child molester or a pedophile. It was unwanted contact forced on someone powerless to do anything about it. Which makes me feel I need to respond to this:
No they can’t. The situation I was in (and that the majority of others I’ve talked with who have been sexually abused as well) was that because it was an adult–an authority figure–saying no wasn’t an option.
Not eating your vegetables, not cleaning your room, whatever you choose to say “no” to has consequences. Do you think there aren’t consequences for saying “no” to sex as well? The idea that a kid can say “No, I don’t want to” and the person will just step away is ludicrous. And insulting to the kids who have gone through it.
As I understand it, a pedophile is sexually attracted to children and wants to have consensual sex with them. A child molester is akin to a rapist in that it’s not about sex so much as power. But to me there’s really no difference because a child can’t give consent, and I feel that in most cases the appeal (whether for a pedophile or a molester) is the unequal power in the situation.
Not all child molesters are exclusively pedophilic in their interests, but that doesn’t mean that pedophiles and molesters are mutually exclusive. Most sexual abusers of children are indeed pedophiles (and it isn’t true at all that wanting the sex to be consensual is necessarily part of the paraphilia, especially when you’re talking about a target range where consent is impossible).
There is a recurring theme in a couple (or more; I’m not going back through 5 pages and counting) of people’s posts that by letting cesario post on the SDMB, we’re somehow saving him from the rest of the Internet. I don’t know about the rest of you all, but I’m perfectly willing and capable of keeping up with participation in multiple message boards on a daily or weekly basis. If cesario wants to hang out on a MB that has significant under-13 participation, his being here on the SDMB isn’t going to stop him.
Anyway, this is a person who has openly admitted that he is sexually attracted to toddlers and would like to have sex with them. Either he is totally trolling us – a theory that I find more plausible with every post that he makes, by the way – or he is a sick fuck that gets off on talking about his illegal and dangerous-to-others sexual fetish. Either way I really don’t think that his being here is providing some great learning opportunity for everyone else on the SDMB, or in fact adding to the SDMB in any way. No, I’m not saying he should be banned. I just want him to stop making every goddamn thread he posts in, all about his pedophilia and why it’s rilly OK for him to want to fuck 2-year-olds.
Even if time spent here is distracting him from places like GirlChat and Free Spirits and other MBs that enable Cesario’s sick attraction to minors, it wouldn’t make a bit of difference. He has shown time and again a total unwillingness to listen to others, and refuses to consider anyone’s point of view aside from his own. Self-obsessed narcissists thrive upon being the center of attention, even if that attention is coming from people who would happily inflict violence upon his anatomy if they met him in real life.
But ain’t that the way it’s always been in cyberspace? Forget it, Jake…it’s the Internet. :rolleyes:
However, although I won’t like to the actual site for obvious reasons, but I will link to a slightly NSFW (but for GOOD reasons) site called something awful. It does piss takes. And although the forum it mocks isn’t girlchat the one it does mock one very similar. You might enjoy this if you appreciate dark humour: The Pedo Files
(I too had to google girlchat…and against my better judgment, I opened the site. shudder At least there wasn’t any porn, just a justification – “this is a site for blah blah blah”)