Please note that David was the first one to bring his kid into this discussion, in an inspiring post which ended with the words “Fuck You.”
It’s disingenuous at best to say that the one holiday has been coopted out of its Christian roots sufficiently to permit its celebration, yet to ignore the fact that the other holiday has its roots in pre-Christianity and some aspects of it have been coopted by Christianity. Exactly to whom does one “give thanks” on the fourth Thursday in November. You may say that you don’t acknowledge a Deity to give thanks to, but that doesn’t mean that that is exactly where the holiday started.
It’s a FACT, David, that the celebration of a winter holiday pre-dates Christianity. Pick up a book and learn about the Oak King and the Holly King. It’s a FACT that 90 per cent or more of the cultural hoopla around the holiday is just that – cultural, not religious. Mistletoe, Christmas trees, Santa Claus, Yule logs, putting up Christmas lights, etc. are cultural, not religious. What are the songs that are song at this time of year? Sure, there are obviously religious ones like Silent Night. What are you hearing on the radio? Santa Claus is Coming to Town, White Christmas, Jingle Bells, Winter Wonderland, Grandma Got Run Over By A Reindeer, etc. Won’t find a religious reference in any one of them.
Hanukah has not been coopted by the secular society, nor has Dewali (sp?) nor any of the other feasts and celebrations – all of them usually reflecting some aspect of the return of the light that comes at the solstice – that come at this time of year. Do you want them to be? The cultural celebration tends to overshadow the religious one – it’s a common complaint in Christian households that the true meaning of the religious celebration gets lost in the midst of the cultural one. (Interestingly, at my kids’ public school they study many of the holidays that come at this time of year, from a cultural aspect, not a religious one.)
Oh, and Phil? Bad example. My kids DO understand the Samhain celebration, and honor it. You may have seen posts from me around that time of year, wishing everyone a Happy New Year! But I have no patience with those (usually fundies) who do not let their children celebrate Halloween because of its (pagan) religious overtones – it’s another one of those holidays where the cultural celebration has come to nearly obliterate the religious significance of the day.
And we celebrate the solstices (watch for it this year – the first time in 133 years that the full moon is on the night of the solstice – supposed to be awesome, and won’t happen again for another 100+ years!), and honor and observe the natural turnings of the year.
David, you’re such a gentleman. As a mome myself, I’m sure your mother would be so proud of you.
-Melin