Interesting query, Mr White. First of all, I am considered to be fairly well endowed. I often wear low cut, v-neck type blouses, tops, shirts, whatever you want to call them. In fact, right now, I’d say that at least half of my tops would be considered low cut, and a fair number of my dresses as well. Why? Because I like the look of them <the outfits I mean, guys! ;)>, and because they’re comfortable to me. I cannot stand anything real tight around my neck, and no one has seen me in a turtleneck since I was about 10 yrs old. Do I do it for the attention? Hmm. Hard to say. I mean, I get looks no matter what I’m wearing a lot of times, especially in some parts of this town; so why not be comfortable? It’s not like I can hide that I have large breasts or anything after all. :rolleyes:
I, too, have some issues with my overall weight, but as I keep losing weight, and work on getting healthy, that becomes less of an issue to me. The people I care about most love me just the way I am; the rest don’t matter.
Mischievous said: As to the “things falling in” idea, I can confidently state that wiping spaghetti sauce/ice cream/whatever off exposed cleavage is much easier (and sexier) than getting it off your shirt. And this does tend to happen more to those of us in the largest sizes, since we do have to sit farther away from the plate.
Yep! It sure is. Just ask Mr Bear. And, sometimes, instead of sitting farther away, I just lean over more. 
Intriguing, I have that problem too, at times, but I have found one that works very well, it’s a one hook in front type, very comfortable. I currently have 5 of them, in various colors.
So, does that answer your questions enough for you?
