Confessions of a Grown-up Fan of the Harry Potter books

I’m 28 years old. I do not have any kids.

Initially I didn’t read the Harry Potter books, even when they were getting all kinds of publicity and crushing the competition in the bestseller lists. I had suspected that the writing in the books would be “too young” for me, and that I probably wouldn’t enjoy them.

It wasn’t until a year ago, when my sister-in-law was telling me during the Thanksgiving dinner last year how much she enjoyed the first book, which she had read on a plane from Ohio to Oregon. She asked if I had read it, and got bug-eyed when I said I hadn’t.

“How can a bookworm like you ignore these books?” she said. She produced her copy of the first book and told me, demanded that I read it. I did, and I was hooked. After returning the book to her, I bought all of the rest of the books as quickly as possible, and loved them all, especially the fourth book.

Recently I’m re-reading the series, and I confess to feeling self-conscious reading them in public. At the sandwich shop where I have often have lunch, the dust jacket has been removed from the book and I keep the spine away from public view. Perhaps there is no good reason for me to do this, but it does feel strange for someone my age to be reading a book that is so strongly marketed at the younger set.

This self-consciousness was recently reinforced when someone at the sandwich shop asked me last week what I was reading as she passed by to wipe off the tables. I showed her, and she said, “Aren’t you a little old for that kind of stuff?”

Embarrassment galore.

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She seemed to recognize my discomfort, and considering how I was a regular customer there (to the point where I no longer have to tell them what kind of sandwich I’m having and how to make it…they just get started on it as soon as I walk in the door), she backed off and said, “I’m sorry.”

But it has left me with a funny feeling about it ever since, and the feeling was amplified when I went to see the recent movie adaptation (which I thoroughly enjoyed, BTW). Lotta kids in that theatre, more kids than are usually present at the kind of movie fare I frequently see.

Am I too old for these books? My tastes normally gravitate towards non-fiction science and history books, fiction by authors such as Isaac Asimov, Neal Stephenson, Terry Pratchett, and Douglas Adams. J.K. Rowling seems like a bit of a departure from this.

Personally I’m inclined to say, “Screw it. Who cares what others think? I enjoy these books and that’s all that matters.” I’m a serious bookworm, reading an average of anywhere from 2 to 5 books a week. My reading time is valuable to me, and I certainly wouldn’t waste it on a series of books that was beneath me in terms of the sophistication of the writing.

But I would like to know if there are a lot of adult Dopers out there who have read the books. Especially if you read them despite the fact that you don’t have any kids…I know a few adults that ending up reading them just to see what their offspring was carrying on about. I know that my sister-in-law (who is a few months older than me) is one of those few adults who read it without any prompting from the younger set. My stepmother though was hounded by her nephews to read them, and she got hooked.

So, am I alone on this?

You most certainly are not alone. I too am in my twenties with no children, and I’m a fan of the series. Go with your inclination, to hell with what others think. But I think you’ll be surprised at how many adults are fans as well.

Nope. Almost 36, no kids and happy to read anything interesting to me. I know the feeling though: th’ last time I reread the Oz series, I got a lot of weird looks. I don’t care, though. Life’s too short to base my reading choices on what kind of looks I get.

Regarding Harry Potter, I was in London a few years back, saw the books everywhere, got the first two out of curiousity. Didn’t care for the first one at all but was hooked by the second one.

So, no. You’re not alone at all!

Fenris

I’m 31 and enjoy the HP books as well as other children’s literature. Some of it is written much better than a lot of adult stuff IMO. There are message boards devoted to adults who read children’s lit for fun so you’re definaltely not alone.

[sub]I read R.L. Stine[/sub]

No, you’re definitely not alone. I am in my twenties as well and I adore the books. I’ve read the entire series twice and I’m currently on my third time through. I also have quite a few friends and acquaintances who are fans of the book.

However… I too hate the self-conscious feeling that I get while reading HP on the bus or in public, although I love the books. I usually borrow my younger brothers books (and I remove the dust jacket as well), but I have noticed “adult” versions of the first two HP books in a few book stores. They are a little bit thinner (smaller type, more words per page) and the cover illustrations are much more “adult”. For example, the "Philosopher’s Stone (I’m in Canada) just has a picture of the Hogwarts Express train on the front. The picture is actually like a photograph, not a cartoon.

If they had the entire series I would buy them all! Unfortunately, I don’t have much of a budget for books right now :frowning: , and I can’t justify buying them when I can borrow them anytime I want.

Forty-five years old and I’ve worn out my copies of Prisoner of Azkaban and Goblet of Fire. And not from reading them to Michaela, either. She’s five, and while she is being a trouper and a good sport about letting me read to her, she still hasn’t made it through The Sorcerer’s Stone. The pictures are really far apart, see, and she has a five year-old’s concept of the value of things like foreshadowing (that is to say, none at all), so she keeps asking about the motivations for people’s actions while I’m trying to read to her about what happens next. I’ve got her just about up to Harry’s first day of classes, and she’s comprehending and retaining pretty well, but it’s been a slow slog thus far.

Sorry for rambling. The point is that, no, you are assuredly not alone in enjoying these books, and the sandwich shop lady’s assessment of them as somehow not fit to be read by grown men merely tells me that she has denied herself a fine pleasure by not reading them herself. You could do worse than to recommend them to her.

I will be 30 in February and I read and enjoyed them. My son is 6 and I don’t think he would sit for being read to from a book that long quite yet… though now that he’s seen and LOVED the movie (we’re going again tomorrow) I might be able to read them to him after all. I mean he knows the characters and stuff now.

Who cares what you read? And if they do… well they’re weird. Heck I read Daniel Pinkwater books from time to time.

I read kids’ books all the time. HP, Pinkwater, Seuss, Diana Wynn Jones, Shel Silverstein, L’Engle…

I feel no shame.

I have a Green Eggs and Ham T-shirt that I wear from time to time. People that give me weird looks are beneath my notice.

I’m eighteen and I’ve read all the books. Twice. And I’m not afraid to walk around with them in public. I also went to see the movie last night with my sister and two of my friends. We went to the latest showing possible, 10:15 pm, and there were only two or three teenagers around; the rest of the visitors were all adults. So, no, you’re definitely not alone.

[sub]I’m Dutch, so please forgive my spelling and/or grammar screw-ups.[/sub]

I’m almost 47 (birthday in December), and I love the HP books. So did my mother, and she is 69. I’ve seen the movie too, couldn’t wait, and will probably go again. Hey, good writing is good writing, be it for kids or grownups.

P.S. Welcome to the SDMB, Hestia! I wouldn’t worry about your spelling or grammar. It looks better than many I’ve seen in these forums!

(fixed coding. and spelling and grammar <grin>. – Uke)

[Edited by Ukulele Ike on 11-27-2001 at 10:46 AM]

Preview should have been my friend. I didn’t mean for all that last section to be italicized.

I’m another adult who has read all of the existing Harry Potter books, and enjoyed them greatly. I esp. love their humor.

I’ve seen other adults reading them.

I also like Dianna Wynn Jones. I recommend Archer’s Goon to anyone who wants to try her.

i’m 26, no kids, and i’ve read and loved them all. in fact, i’ll probably be waiting outside the bookstore with all the little monsters when the fifth one comes out.

i was visiting my parents’ house one day over the summer when we had a nine-hour power failure. my sister was there with her kids so i began to read the goblet of fire out loud. after my sister’s daughter fell asleep i tried to stop reading but all the other adults in the room made me keep going because they wanted to find out what happened!

don’t worry if other people make fun of you. they’re just books, it’s not like you have a diaper fetish or you go home and watch power puff girls. chances are they have not read the books and if they had, they’d leave you alone about it. if i ever get too old to enjoy such a wonderful story, then i think i’ll really have something to worry about.

I love, love, love these books, and I don’t care who knows it. Considering I live in an area full of people who don’t read, and won’t watch black and white movies because they require purty colors to hold their attention, I don’t pay a lot of attention to what people say.

On a related note, I recently decided to descend once again on the children’s and young adult’s sections of the local library, which I had pretty much completely read by the time I was 11. I had a blast! I re-discovered some old favorites I had forgotten about, and found that some of the books I used to love now have sequels, overlooked by me during my misspent adolescence. I highly recommend this practice to all lifelong bookaholics!

I’m 22 and a graduate student in English, and I’m a fan too and don’t care who knows it. (Although my sisters, almost 20 and considerably more jaded, scoff at me for it. ;)) That sandwich shop lady doesn’t know what she’s missing.

I got into Harry Potter back before the real popularity hit. I heard about the book and ordered it for my daughters. I started reading it first so I could discuss it with them as they read it. I got hooked immediately. Luckily my wife has cousins in England, so we had them send us the books as soon as they were released there, enabling us to read them months before they were released in the states. They addressed the problem of adults feeling uncomfortable reading children’s books and released some adult editions with adult covers.
I never had to resort to these, but I can understand you may feel a bit self conscious being seen reading these. I don’t think it has the stigma attached these days as I see quite a few adults reading Potter on my daily commute.
Anyone who comments usually gushes about how many times they read the books or how early they read them. I feel sorry for those that miss out on these books because they think they are exclusively for kids.
The worst part is when you finish the books and have to wait months for the next one to be released. If you suffer from Potter withdrawal, a trilogy that was recommended to me, which I found to be just as gripping as Potter, is Philip Pullman’s His Dark Materials trilogy.
You will get just as swept up and race through these books.
Enjoy yourself! Just feel sorry for those who are too intimidated to read Potter.

i’ve read all the books (so far) and have taken them to restaurants as well. they are great books. there is something for every age in them. how many kidlets would get the greek mythology connection with hagrid?

my cousin, aunt, and i were in line for the first show, first day of the movie. no kids with us. the kids in the family actually wanted to go to school instead of seeing the movie! how weird is that?!?!

welcome on board, hestia. there are quite a few members here that are dutch.

My French teacher liked the Harry Potter books so much, she assigned the first one (in French, of course) to her 3rd & 4th year students. She has a plastic wand, scented markers, and other toys like that all around her classroom. So I definitely wouldn’t worry. Just reading the books is perfectly okay. :slight_smile:

Oh, and speaking of the adult versions–there’s a new version of the first book in the U.S. Quite pretty black cover, with a scene from the forest (I believe…looks like it) done in blue. It’s a smaller book, more like the size of most paperbacks. I don’t think it’s specifically an adult version, but it’s not quite as kid-friendly as the other covers.
jessica