Ah, yes, that’s my style- putting the question
in the subject header.
So, how to deal with this kind of person? How to make them happy, but most of all, how do give them control but still keep the real control yourself?
I’ve been, ah, sort of forced to be friends’ with a control freak & whenever he can’t have absolute control from me he freaks out [an ‘eppy’ in British] & takes my friend & leaves. Course, I want to spend more time with my friend but this guy has to be THERE all the time & one little off comment by me and it’s ‘we have to leave now!’
Last time he said TO ME right in the middle of my conversation with my friend, ’ you lie a lot, you lie all the time…,’ I said,
‘did you think of that all by yourself Michael?’ and there was this hushed silence & then that stupid ‘we have to go now shit.’ ack.