OK, pig roast as a title is totally offensive and well out of order. These guys need to be punished for that alone, it’s needlessly cruel. Hogging as a description is equally offensive, But apart from the terms is this really so bad? The women targeted get an opportunity to get laid which they’re quite at liberty to refuse (but, let’s face it, if they are really overweight those opportunities may be few and far between) and some of the guys may find to their surprise there’s a really nice woman in there.
Bar those names, which unfortunately are a fact of life in college, I see no downside here (although it’s been so long since I was an undergrad that I’m perfectly willing to be told that I’m wrong and things have changed (it certainly doesn’t sound like it though!)
What a sweet story that would be! Boy fucks girl in a misogynist game designed around humiliating women for sport, boy falls in love with girl that he humiliated. Talk about meet cute!
Your depiction of fat women as desperate for some D is a little…off. If the women are so desperate for fratdong that they’re willing to be semipublicly humiliated to get it, why not make the game clear? The fratboys can tell the women, “Hey, I want to fuck you so that I can tell my bros what a disgusting thing I did by putting my penis in a fat woman. Are you hot yet?”
If they’re laying their cards on the table, and the woman is down with the plan, I can’t say I care that much. But this is a classic example of sex-by-deception: I strongly doubt that the women are having sex knowing what the dude’s plan is, and I strongly doubt that any of these women would have gone through with it knowing what the back story was.
A fraternity holding any sort of formal competition among its members concerning whom they sleep with is wholly unacceptable, and it is not made any more acceptable by the people being slept with being considered less desirable to aldiboronti.
Even if you pare it down to a “have sex with a lot of women” there is a problem. Sex as competitive sport encourages deception at the very least. Lying to someone, including lying by omission, to get them to have sex with you, is bad.
It’s not really their job to stay silent either. Image/reputation probably correlates with money at some point, so if they feel they have a financial stake, then meh, let 'em flex their muscles.
Back when I was in HS sadly we did something similar. for one dance we “elected” the least attractive women for dance queen.
Our teacher later chewed us out (why he didnt stop us is beyond me) but also admitted the girls had done something similar the previous year by electing an unpopular boy for dance king.
If the guys were not turned on they wouldn’t be able to get it up. Who are they trying to fool, maybe the overweight chicks are the only ones they think they have a chance with. My son had a band for several years called the chubby chasers. They played on clubs that were frequented by plus size women. My sons wife is a hottey but they all played the part that chubby was their thing. Funny thing was that 2 of the single guys in the band actually started becoming attracted to the larger women. Once they got to know them they really liked them.
Large women aren’t necessarily deprived when it comes to sex. There’s a certain branch of males who are into sex with plus size gals, and not to degrade and humiliate them either. They just find huge women attractive.