IF you can find a way to afford college.
IF you enter a field that actually pays any money.
IF you finish a degree.
You’re ignoring the fact that without parental assistance - his bioparents, not the people who have taken him in - this kid can NOT get any form of financial aid whatsoever. NONE. The iron-clad assumption is that his parents will help him out, whether they will or not. Failure to get the forms filled out means he’s out of the running.
So, he has to find a way to pay for it. Somehow. At full price. And he’s going to do that… how?
Then there is the matter of what he may or may not be interested in. If he did, hypothetically, want to be a car mechanic then what he needs is a trade school, not a four year university. Some people actually are interested in a military career. And some people, yes, want to be a doctor or a lawyer. We know nothing about this kid, what his aptitudes and interests are.
On top of that - I have a bachelor’s and 30 years experience and in 2007 my job was flushed, outmoded by technology and outsourcing. Sure, I got 30 years out of my degree but right now I’m learning a new trade. Does it suck to go back to education at 45 or 50? Yes and no. Frankly, there was suck when I went to college at 18. It’s all in how you look at things.
Is being middle class important? Well… it’s nice to have a middle class income but if you’ve got a buttload of student loan debt a middle class income won’t always make you middle class.
Right now this kid is homeless and penniless. Sure, college, great, a middle-class career/lifestyle/whatever it’s all great but RIGHT NOW he need shelter, food, and clothing first and foremost. THEN he needs to try to figure out what’s next. RIGHT NOW getting a minimum wage job and some self-respect is the first step because mom and dad just tossed him out like the weekly garbage.
Taking 6-12 months to get his feet under him and actually plan a future is better than simply dumping him into college without clear direction. Especially at today’s prices. If he gets a bachelor’s or master’s or PhD frankly no one is going to give a crap if he entered college right out of high school or waited 2 years to become a freshman. It’s more important that, wherever he goes from here, he reaches his goals successfully rather than quickly.