Sorry, but not sorry for double posting.
When I read your post, I realized that hubs is no longer my best friend. I think I’m going to go outside and smoke while crying at the realization.
Sorry this happened.
I’m very sorry to hear that.
And this. I’ve been following your saga, and I’m really sad it’s come to this.
My niece is pregnant and unvaccinated, which might be a concern over the interactions. But her husband is a Trumper and also unvaccinated, as are many of their family. I don’t think I’ll be attending the baby shower in FL.
My late husband was also my best friend. It is easy for me to imagine what an immense loss that must be. I truly hope he is able to find his way once again someday soon.
No kidding. According to World o meters, Florida’s 7 day average is now very close to a record, soon to eclipse the 15,985/day number set on January 11. And now with no public health measures in place (actually, some ANTI-public health measures in place), this number is sure to rise.
Thanks @JKellyMap and @puzzlegal
It would be grossly misleading to blame it all on COVID, but I suspect that, as it has been for other broken relationships, the pandemic was a tripwire to landmines that have been there all along.
Get the kitten. It will make you feel better. I’ve thought about getting a puppy or a kitten. My landlords won’t allow it. I don’t have enough cash to buy a home anymore - not with hedge funds buying shit up everywhere I look.
I’ve been following your experience, JaneDoe42, and I’m sorry you’re going through a tough time.
If he thinks it was just the flu, then how does he justify his claim (that I’ve read elsewhere - can’t find the thread) that he’s now immune to COVID-19? Getting the flu doesn’t make you immune to the flu, much less a coronavirus.
You can’t outlogic a belief system. I have stopped trying, he’s going to do what he wants, I’m going to do what I want.
George (my Maine Coon kitten) is growing like a weed. I had forgotten how entertaining kittens are, we have been laughing a lot lately. I’ve already found Norwegian Forest Cat breeder for when he gets Delta, the dumbass.
Glad to hear this. Bet it will be an adorable kitten. Get on the waiting list now.
OMG! I have the same friend!
I have a group of six women friends (all in our 70s and one in her 80s) who have been getting together monthly for the last 28 years (as of this month). But this one leftover flower child woo-woo new-agey nut who also travels around in her camper truck (she’s currently in far West Texas and will probably turn up at the same crystal-sucking festival as your friend) told us last year when the vaccines became available that she did not plan to get one. When some of us questioned the wisdom of that decision (in an ongoing text thread) she went off in a huff saying she didn’t want to be around such negativity. Like your friend, she thinks her superior immune system, positive thinking, and the Law of Attraction will protect her. I have completely lost respect for her.
Yeah, they probably know each other. According to my friend, it’s a smaller community of people who live this way than we might imagine. My friend is younger than yours, but it sounds like they both definitely subscribe to the same overconfidence in the capabilities of the average immune system.
It’s a good thing she can’t see my face whenever she rhapsodizes over what her “natural remedies” protect her from.
It’s just so dumb.
Awww George.
Yeah, the little terrorist has probably saved our marriage. I was so mad at hubs that it was hard to even look at him, but when we both teamed up to spoil our kitten rotten and laugh about his antics, we started talking about other stuff. Not the orange elephant, that probably won’t happen.
I do want to thank everyone who has been so supportive during this. I’m sorry I’ve been so graceless about it, but honestly, its so embarrassing that when I’m not raging, I’m trying to not think about it.
Thank you for your kindness and understanding. I am better prepared mentally for when he gets Delta, the dumbass.
I wish I could blame Covid, but it is all on me.
Lurkmeister, how is he able to “keep his wife from getting vaccinated?” Does he control her that much?
I’m not sure of that. I’m just going by what my niece told me, as I haven’t had any contact with them except for a few Facebook posts she made with photos of her children. The last time we spoke was at the family Christmas get-together in 2019, and he didn’t say anything that made me think he was a Trumpite. But then, my family hardly ever talks about politics.