Crazy cat lady phase II

Since the sad passing of my kitten Sassy, I’ve been wanting to get another cat. Heck if I’m going to die alone with my face eaten off by my cats, I really need at least one cat, right?

Anyways, I had been semi offered two kittens by the vet, but that never happened. I then discovered that an animal shelter that I’d assumed defunct was actually still operating, so I was checking on their website for kittehs.

Now the strange thing is that the night after Sassy died I had a dream where I acquired two cats, a tortie she and another cat who I couldn’t see properly. About 2 weeks ago an ad comes on the shelter’s site looking for a home for a tortie female and her kitten. I texted the number and didn’t get a reply. I tried emailing the foster home but nothing. I then contacted the shelter and they said it was a “shared” ad from another shelter further down the county, I dug around and found them on Facebook and there were two ads for cats, both of them tortie females with a kitten.

So I’m posting on the photos asking about these cats… and no one’s answering me.

Meanwhile I’ve been telling a friend of mine about my poor little kitten, and she tells me her mother (lives on a farm) has a shed full of stray cats that have wandered into the yard over the last few months. There are about 10 of them now and my friend has been taming them in order to re-home them, so she says she’ll see what she can find for me.

A few days later she texts me to say there’s a black kitten who’s very friendly that I can have. I make arrangements to go see it on the Friday when my mother is at Daycare. Before I can get there, my friend’s mother had taken a shine to the cat and wanted to keep it.

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I’m checking my phone and facebook for replies to me requests for the tortie’n’kitten, but there’s nothing, then I look at my spam folder in my email and someone’s answered me! I reply and tell them I’m interested in mother and kitten, forever indoor home etc… and wait for a reply.

My friend phones me to tell me she’s had a word with her mother and if I want the cat I can come pick her up. So I go for a look. Turns out she actually has tamed two of the strays and suggests I might like to take both…?

Hmmm. While she goes to find the black kitten, she points out the other cat, and he’s a lovely pale ginger, she finds the black cat and lo, the kitten (about 6 months old at a guess) is actually a tortie! She is mostly black.

Well dammit I said YES I’LL TAKE THEM BOTH!!! and I returned later with my cat carrier to whisk them home.

(I’ve emailed the shelter to apologise but I can’t take their cats now. I’ll send them the donation fee anyways for the inconvenience I’ve caused)

My mother wasn’t one bit amused that there are two cats, but she’s warming to the idea now.

After a few days I decided the tom should be called Dave, and yesterday the she’s name came to me -Georgia.

Dave has sussed out what the litter tray is, however Georgia hasn’t and is pooing on the floor.

They spent their first full day with us hiding due to Mother shouting at her ‘guests’ (lewey body dementia hallucinations). However she’s calmed down a bit now, so the two cats are happy enough to come out from hiding and play with the jingly balls I got them.

slightly rubbish pic of them in the carrier

For some reason artificial light makes her look a lot lighter than she is, and him a lot darker than he is :confused:

Congrats, Corcaigh! Dave & Georgia are lucky lucky kitties and super gorgeous, too.

Yay, kitties! And Dave looks quite a bit like my dear departed Sadie. You’ve got a couple of gems there. Here’s hoping they give you many joyful years of fun and cuddling, and that they start eating your face off before you’re even cold.

Ohhhh… squuueeee! I am a sucker for kitties, especially torties. If she hasn’t already told you, she is in charge and will be vocal about it. Congrats!

Congratulations on the new furkids. They look like sweeties, and at least they apparently like each other.

Thanks!

They fight like the blazes, mostly in fun, when it gets too heavy handed, it’s Georgia who’s doing the pounding.

I half thought Dave couldn’t meow, but he does, it’s just a funny little high pitched girlie Meee, Georgia is more of a Yeow! (always with the !)

I’m getting a bit worried about how to teach Georgia to use the litter tray, for the moment [while I’m trying to house train] most options are out, other than spraying vinegar where she’s been going and hoping that puts her off going there again, but then that might just encourage her to go somewhere else.

The pair of them like to go up on the window and play tennis with the ‘acorn’ on the roller blind. I cannot video it for laughing at them!

They were both fascinated by the real fire

Fight!

Dude, stop, she’s watching

They’re both booked at the vets for spaying/neutering.

Sigh. I wish I could have cats but I’m horribly allergic (hospital level allergic). My dog loves cats and he’s been pestering me for one of his own.

They’re adorable. Enjoy!

I scared the bejaysus out of Dave earlier on, he jumped on Georgia when she was fighting her way out of a paper bag. I started to laugh my ass off, poor Dave didn’t know what was wrong and ran away to hide!

They are both becoming very boisterous, and the wrastling tends to get very aggressive at times

I’m hoping that’ll calm down when they get spayed/neutered.

And Georgia has started using the litter tray! I gave up in the end and bought a bag of potting compost stuff and put that in the tray, she’s been hoping in and out all evening doing her business!

Wow, the pattern on your ginger kitty looks very unique. I’ve never seen a cat like that before. Great pictures!

I remember your happy then sad thread about Sassy, and am very happy for you and Dave and Georgia (and your Mum, too). They are beautiful cats.

The fighting will go on for years; get used to it. It’s just how things are with littermates. It’s not really fighting, tho. It’s just boisterous play. Unless you actually see blood and fur flying and the screeching and caterwauling goes on for hours and hours… then it’s real fighting.

Dave (the ginger, right?) is a classic tabby. They have beautiful broad stripes and often have bullseye designs on their sides. Tabbies with thin stripes like a fishbone down their spines are mackerel tabbies.

Best of luck to the whole family.

The cats have had to go back to their previous home.

Mother wouldn’t tolerate them being in the house, she spent 3 days telling me (VERY LOUDLY) to take them back, then telling me to take them to the vet (to have them put down) then telling me to leave the window or door open and let them out. I kept telling her I wasn’t doing any of these things, and on Wednesday she finally quit her whinging and settled down.

Then on Thursday afternoon, she was going out of the living room, Georgia tried to follow her, mother watched the cat sneaking towards the door, and tried to slam the door on the cat’s head.

Later in the evening the cats were playing on the floor when Dave pounced on her foot, she looked down to see what it was, and kicked him in the face.

Friday morning, I get up, she’s in bed, I put the cats in the living room and fed them, then ran out with the bins, I came back to find the living room door wide open and mother sitting in there with a shit eating grin on her face, and no cats.

I may have been stupid enough to leave the cats unattended, but I wasn’t stupid enough to leave the external doors open, so they were still in the house.

I took her to Daycare, then rang my friend and she okayed my bringing them back.

The staff at the Daycare said she’d never mentioned the cats at all during the day, where previously she’d been telling everyone about Sassy.

I’ve always known my mother to be a callous, cold-hearted, selfish, bitch who doesn’t like me to have anything (she screams abuse at me for so much as buying a pair of socks). I knew I’d have a fight on my hands over the cats, and I had the mad skillz (built up over 40 years of fighting with her over everything) to counter her attacks.
I never for one second thought she’d stoop to trying to hurt the cats in order to get back at me for my disobedience*.

Even if I had the means to keep her and the cats separated there would have been an opportunity somewhere along the line for her to have tried again - including employing someone else to do her dirty work, a while back she tried to get my cousin to sell my horse.

  • being happy about something.

:’(. So sorry to hear this. Do you have any means to escape such an abusive situation?

(offers hug)

Why did you bring two cats home when you knew your mother, who lives with you, would be completely against it? And why do you live with your mother? I take it from the references to “Daycare” that she’s got some sort of special needs, but if she’s cruel to you (screaming at you over socks? seriously?) maybe it’s time to consider a new arrangement.

I’m sorry you didn’t get to keep the kitties. It sounds like you’re in a very abusive spot and I hope you get out.

I’m very sorry to hear this. Perhaps it’s time to dote on other people’s cats?

Thanks. For the time being, no I don’t.

The system has failed me completely, my mother’s behaviour had been ignored forever. I’m one of those nameless, faceless victims who fell through the cracks in the system. There have been rare occasions when people have seen her aberrant behaviour, but they are few and far between and, as is the way of the world, nothing was ever done, and I’ve had to learn to live with her behaviours.

She was diagnosed with normal pressure hydrocephalus 12~15 years ago and a few years ago she segued into the dementia phase of -literally- overnight. It was holding back the worst of her narcissistic personality disorder traits, and she actually became quite tolerable for ages, culminating in her acceptance of Sassy. So, dumbass that I am, I thought it’d be okay to get another cat now that she seems to have mellowed.

It would appear that sometime in the last 10 days, without my noticing it, her behaviour changed dramatically, and she’s gone Dark Side again. While I don’t remember her ever being cruel to any of the cats we’ve had before, her behaviour was so extreme I wouldn’t dare trust her with the cats again.

I can still see Dave and Georgia any time I want, or am able to.