Crushes

Well, there was this girl last night, we hit it off. God damn, I need her phone number! Life would then be perfect.

Don’t you just hate this?

::sigh::

Oh yeah. Saw her on Friday, in fact; talked to her for a bit, but we had to cut it short. It’s so annoying to have only 10 minutes between classes…

Anyway. Still workin’ on it. Hopefully, I’ll have an opportunity to ask her to the play I have tickets for on the 10th. Wish me luck, fellow lonely hearts…

I usually have 3-4 crushes running at once. I get over one just in time to pick up another. It always happens that the person in question is in a relationship or simply way out of my league (of course, pining away is kinda fun, if not somewhat painful).

My problem is that I am unbelievably dense when it comes to flirting. Just the other day I was sitting in the Library with some friends when a girl came up to me and asked to borrow some paper because “she had forgotten her binder”. Now, being the sap that I am, I got a bit flustered and I handed her several sheets of paper. She thanked me and went on her way. After she left I was told that I should have asked her if she wanted to get some coffee or given her my number, or something.

I think my dropping jaw broke that sound barrier. I had no idea. I mean none what so ever.

Sigh…

I wouldn’t be that upset, but this is the sort of thing that only happens once in a blue moon (I hope. Like I said, I’m pretty clueless).

Anyway, that bit above may be a bit off topic, but it illustrates a point, namely, that I am incapable of telling if someone is actually interested in me. Makes having a crush on someone a bit harder, let me tell you. Curse my terminal shyness!
Oh and good luck Max Torque. I hope everything works out for the best!

I hate it when I don’t have a crush on someone. Life seems so boring without someone to daydream about. That said the only crush I have at the moment is getting beyond the pathetic stage, where it’s really time for me to say “forget it, girl” and move on, which doesn’t seem to be happening :frowning:

I’m also absolutely dreadful at intentionally flirting although apparently I’m quite good at flirting with people I’m not actually interested in. If I do find someone attractive I become a completely useless stammering idiot. I suppose that explains why I’ve been single for so long sigh

mmm…my last crush was this guy in my Linear Algebra class last year. I noticed him at the beginning of the year, and it took me until the next semester to actually talk to him. He had the habit of wearing a bandana on his head, so my best friend and I called him Bandana-Boy until we found out his actual name. I totally looked forward to going to class just to see him, and I’d go out of my way to walk past the place where he studied just so I could get a look at him. I thought about him constantly, and it was driving me nuts, so I eventually gathered up the nerve to speak to him.

Two months later, he asked me out, and we’ve been together ever since.

I had a crush while me and my girlfriend were broken up for about 3 weeks. I never acted on it simply because I knew she and I would be getting back together. I dare not say anymore about it because if I do I will be interogated by my girlfriend. I hate it when she comes on here just to read what I say and see if I play nice with everyone.

I had a crush on this one guy from senior year up to near the end of my first freshman year in college. He used to work with me @ the grocery store I work at. I never acted on it well because at the time I was with someone (not saying that being with the guy from work would have been better :slight_smile: ) and the guy I worked with also had a girlfriend (not saying he would have been better off with me at the time). Anyhow then we came available and still didnt act on it (even though he asked me out on a date) because I was looking forward to someone else at that time and have been with that person for over a year now :-). Good thing I didnt act on my crush because then I would have missed the love of my life.

Ok, i am officially pathetic now :D. I decided today to drive up to the parking lot near where my crush works and sit there, waiting to get a glimpse of him while he left work to go home sigh. Just as hot as he was on Thursday. Until they get back to me on the job, i may intermittently go back and watch him leave work (i guess that makes me about > < that close to being a stalker ;)).

Yeah… you are. But it’s a really cute desperation. Makes you kinda hot :wink:
I was in, well on second thought it’s not really similar at all, the kinda same situation. I met this girl at this bar, and we kinda hit it off. Only problem is, I didn’t get her number. But and this is a big but. I knew where she worked. At Macy’s at Union Square. Which has quite a few employees, floors, and shifts. I had no idea her hours, or where, but she was there.

So I started finding reasons to go to Macy’s. Looking at glasses, watches, crockery.
After, jesus, a couple weeks, and me almost giving up. She ran up behind me and said… HEY (it had been loud and she hadn’t heard my name in the club). We ended up going to the US premier of Run Lola Run that Friday, at the SFIFF. And dating for a while, and even living together a short period. Fancy that.

So what I’m saying is… good luck. :slight_smile: