Is there anything wrong with me liking online sex?
Some of you might know that I had bad problems with my husband. We have since split up and someone I have known for years, online has been a great friend to me through all of this. He’s very much alone too.
Somewhere down the line, we began flirting and it has turned into full blown online sex. It will never become anything else, we’re in different states and we both have a lot of other things going on right now, but I’m having a lot of fun with this.
Yes, it’s weird; probably quite common though. If nobody is being abused and nobody has any unrealistic expectations, I can’t see why it would be wrong.
I’m kind of curious as to the precise mechanics of it all, but I’m sure you probably don’t want to explain that; I’m not sure that I won’t end up wishing I didn’t know.
I certainly don’t see the harm in it (assuming your both single)…but don’t automatically asssume it’ll never become anything else, even if geography makes it difficult.
Or better yet, don’t assume he thinks it’ll never become anything else.
No toys, no webcams, we’ve both seen pictures of each other, though.
I’m trying to think of a good way to define this. We get each other very turned on, and…take care of ourselves from there, while still talking to each other.
The suit was a fake. Lisa Palac came up with it for a photoshoot for her new magazine (name escapes me). It was just a lot of junk that looked futuristic and sexual. It didn’t do anything. She wrote a memoir, where she pointed out that the suit got bigger play than the magazine. Since that title escapes me, too, I would have to say she’s right.
Everyone’s online these day. It’s difficult for all 99% of us to lie all the time. Everyone’s online and like everyone does we talk about sex.
I started out with my SO online…and he turned out to be doing just what he said he was doing. And…he had bollocks, and just where I wanted them.
Anyway, dragon, no I don’t think there’s anything weird. What’s weird about wanting to get off and having someone else help you? How is it weirder than phone sex? Or…er…um…trying to think back before current technology…masturbating to a well written letter? It’s just people doing what they can to stimulate another person. That can’t be bad.
It’s easily googled. and there’s even a Dope thread about it. Essentially a boy or girl purchase their respective toys (mechanized dildo for the girl, cocksocket for the boy. Each toy has sensors and motors and other stimulation simulation apparatus that communicate via internet and provide…well, it’s kind of a mechanical feedback system.
Nothing at all wrong with it. You’re sharing a mutual fantasy with a willing partner – can’t see the harm to anyone. Is it weird? C’mon. This doesn’t even rate a tiny blip on the ol’ weird radar.
