I have before. It was fun. I don’t do it to get off. I do it because I like to write, and it’s like an interactive novel, of sorts.
But, in two years of chatting, I’ve only done “it” with 2 people. That was actually how I met my BF.
Oh, I have. Not very often and it’s never been PLANNED, really, but I’ll start flirting with someone, and it’ll go to a private message, and sorta…progress. I’m told I’m reasonably good at it…then again, I don’t know of anyone who’s been involved in a cyber-event and told, “Wow. You’re really bad at this.”
My pet peeve: You’re typing along, setting the mood, and suddenly a message comes across from the other person which is SO completely from a different angle than you’re coming from that you have to delete everything you’ve typed so far and start over so it’ll fit in with the “story.”
Oh, man I hate that. I’ll be typing an action, describing it in pretty good detail, and five seconds before I press return the other person will have typed out something else and I have to either adapt it or scrap it.
Of course, I save those for later 
Extremely uncool of him to do that. Whatever the hell happened to privacy?
Sorry, tymp, but I don’t cyberkiss and tell. If any of the people with whom I’ve had relations online show themselves I’ll let you know. Or not.
yes , several times, I know this guy who could write a book, oh think he is reading from a book, anyway its fun, no attachments oh but I did meet someone in person that was even better then on line!
I give up looking for that disk.
Yes I have ‘cybered’ before, but with someone I already knew (IRL). While I can understand some people could get a bit of a thrill &/or ego rush from having pretend sex with a stranger it’s little more than flirting with four letter words.
Actually no, I take that back. Flirting is fun. Explicit sex details with strangers doesn’t hold much appeal. I’d need to know them.
Hilarious. Sounds like something I’d do.
I have and it was fun. At least it was until my husband got into my email and read some very steamy letters from a guy that I knew from another message board.My husband had joined the message board and when he hacked my email he posted this guy’s letter for all the other members to read; completly unedited and with both our names on it.It was a little embarrassing to say the least! Then he deleted my account and I had to chose a new screen name.So I decided to use the name sortawicked.It seemed to fit.
Hmmm, now you all know that everyone is checking this thread religiously to shop for new playmates. Buncha nymphos…thats why I luvs yas.
It’s a personal call. If you are comfortable, than do it. If not, don’t. And just remember that it’s all fantasy. If you can do that than you can enjoy it for what it’s worth.
I’ve had good/bad/ugly experiences with this so I won’t share. Just make sure YOU know the deal up front.
Once I, another guy, and a girl had “four” alleged men going at once. I’ve never laughed so hard in my life! We did the most ridiculous, over-the-top things possible, (“I’m biting your dick off!”) and three of the four seemed to fall for it. Other than that, though, no. Other than for laughs, it just seems stupid.
First of all, I want to thank Drain Bead for a hilarious link. I almost hurt myself trying to cackle quietly in my cubicle. 
I really should know better than to eat or drink and check these boards at the same time, but hey, I’m the new girl.
As for the cybering thing: I’ve done it. I have a live-in boyfriend so when I tried it, I went to lesbian chat rooms and picked up girls. It takes awhile, though, to find the “real” girls and even then, you’re never sure, but I suppose it doesn’t really matter. I tried it twice with different girls and found it very erotic (maybe cause women are more expressive? who knows?) but unfortunately, both times were cut short by the BF arriving hours early from work. Since then, I only return to the chat room to have friendly, non-sexual chats.
Um…uh…yeah. It has entertainment potential.
Several years ago, I was chatting in a room with some friends, one of whom is a doper, when this really boorish clod blunders in and starts soliciting for cybersex. After he didn’t get any responses, he amped up his requests, so three of us left, changed our nicks to women’s names, and came back in to give him the ride of his life. We also went to a private chat, simultaneously, so we could plot and conspire. We kept getting more and more bizarre, and he was just eating it up (in a manner of speaking). We told him that two of us were roommates, and the third lived in the same dorm. He must have believed it, because one of my partners in crime posted my anonymous e-mail (anybody remember the Finnish anon e-mail?), and I got these really lovelorn mash notes from him for weeks afterward.
I’m not sure whether to feel ashamed of this or not, but as I recall, you guys were much, much better at the sex thing (as women) than I ever was.
That’s 'cause we were sluttier. You just have to try harder, sweetie!
I tried it once and found myself being a smartaleck the whole time. I couldn’t get into it. He wanted to pretend he was a doctor and I was his patient and I’d wind up saying stuff like, “Um, how come there’s no numbers on that thermometer? And that stuff ain’t mercury!”.
I’d rather hear dirty talk than type it.
Hey Omni, wanna play? You’ll be my first!
Absolutely Classic! ROFL!
Well, I guess I’ll come clean (ha!) I do this occasionally. Sometimes I do this before my husband comes home so I can attack him when he walks through the door!
I have a couple different sites I go to–it just depends which one looks more interesting at the time. I enjoy it. If I start chatting with someone who really cannot spell, though, I have to stop–I cannot get turned on when someone is describing body parts whose names I don’t even recognize!
Sometimes it is just standard, not-too-exciting conversation and sometimes it is really erotic and exciting. Sometimes it is even extremely kinky and weird–but in a good way.
I say, go for it, Euty!