I think **The King of Soup ** has demonstrated great wisdom in this thread.
Yeah, because as a bartender, everything she says or does is designed to increase her tips. You probably felt shamed into leaving even more money in the tip jar, didn’t ya?
Is this a whoosh? because I am just not seeing it. How is asking probing finacial questions and trying to sneek a look at something presumably in your pocket in any way related to glancing at something that we (most men) are hard-wired to respond to that has been put on extra display, and covered with glitter? Seriously, are you joking?
I’ll say she had of an apathetic look on her face. She couldn’t have been too annoyed beecause we continued to talk after the “incident”. (And I also contiued to take periodic glance. Couldn’t help it)
My Hero! Exactly.
If the day is warm, I should be able to wear a tank top, just as my flatter sisters do, without having to name my breasts so men may introduce themselves to them!
What is that useless bit of skin attached to the end of a penis?
A Man
Excuse me ? 
I’m not flat chested. Yet I go to work every day in a variety of clothes that are flattering, and yet don’t scream “look at my chest!!!” I’m particularly fond of ribbed turtlenecks that are very complementary to my figure. Yes, I’m run into a man or two who does talk to my chest, whatever I’m wearing - those men are assholes and I avoid talking to them. I’ve never found a situation where a tank top is most comfortable but I’m required to talk to assholes.
I’ve got boobs (they’re fabulous, in case anyone was wondering).
I can wear high tops, and I can wear low tops. If I’m wearing a low top, with a thrusting bra, and glitter, and a necklace with a pokey thing pointing at them, then provided the guy isn’t actually drooling on them, I don’t have a damn thing to take umbrage at.
Shit - you put glitter on things to want to have noticed. If you then harangue the poor guy for noticing, you’re a tool.
I agree, if you’re going to put the goods out for display, you can’t blame anyone for looking. I had a couple of lower-cut shirts I wore to work once or twice. Then I didn’t wear them to work anymore. I couldn’t blame the guys for looking, but it’s hard to remain businesslike when the person you’re talking to is looking down your shirt. Now I save the low-cut shirts for more social purposes. It seems very obvious to me: don’t show’em off if you don’t want people to look.
So what is the weather like on your planet?
Seriously, though, the fact is that men look at tits. This is not saying that we need to give a free pass to those that are not even trying to be subtle, but at the end of the day men are going to look.
If you go out of your way to draw attention to them (you know, like the OP was talking about) you really have no business being all shocked and surprised when men look.
Sorry the world is not living up to your expectations.
I can’t add anything to this conversation that hasn’t already been said.
OK checking in for the not so big chested women here…
Anyway IMO, I love it when I guy looks at mine, simply because they really aren’t all that eye catching. Once I was have a bad day, a guy took a peak down my tank top at the gas station and I actually thanked him. It boosted my ego.
I have this shirt too, and I’ve worn it a few times*. It was very tongue-in-cheek and I got a lot of compliments and laughs from guys, as well as a few leers. I knew when I put it on that I’d be drawing attention to my breasts, but that was fine with me. I, too, adorn them with glitter when I go out - it’s just a little something extra to be eye-catching. Doesn’t bother me when I catch men looking, although when they look at NOTHING else but my boobs, I find someone else to talk to.
*Yes, I have a picture, but you don’t *really * need to see it!
Let me be the first lech to ask…
CITE!
I suppose I was a little too cute with the analogy, but the point is, whether we’re talking rude staring or intrusive questions, even when something is on display there can be a level of appreciation/attention/curiosity that is offensive. A woman who paints her toenails bright colors is not fair game for the fetishist who wants to converse while prone at her feet. If the woman wears something bright and shiny on her earlobe, or her hand, she might even welcome a subtle compliment, but if you can’t look at anything else she can be forgiven for inferring that you’re a jewel thief or a creep.
A woman, even one who augments decolletage with glitter, also has completely bared her face and probably is wearing artfully applied make-up to highlight those features as well. So cries of “she wants me to look” seem, well, kind of selective.
No matter what’s on display, or how, or how much of it, in conversation, polite people maintain eye contact. Hey, that’s a simple rule: maybe we found one after all. There are certainly situations in which it’s difficult, but if it’s impossible, then you’ve found the limits of your social skills and it’s time to move on and stare at people from a safe distance – say, across the parking lot.
I was just reminded of a T-shirt I owned. It said: “All this and brains, too!”. It brought across the same message as the “stop staring”-tees, but much more good-naturedly.
I didn’t wear it myself; I’ve got D’s and it just seemed a bit much. I gave the tee as a present to a friend of mine with small A’s, (it was very stretchy material 
) and she loved it! She said it got her tonnes of pleasant flirty attention. I think it must have been the : “Yes I know you’re looking and it’s okay, let’s have a laugh about it” attitude the text conveyed.
I’m sorry, did you say something?
Regards,
Shodan
…aaaaand allow me to be the first lech to say, “YES WE DO!”
I realize this was posted as a joke, but it is offensive to the gender of men. It’s not right when women are objectified, and it’s not right when men are, either.
funny, you ALMOST killed the thread with the guy bashing joke…
but i wouldn’t let you!!!
by the way, what’s posted as a joke? the original post?