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is this a valid way of catching criminals, or is frontline actually contributing to a problem?
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I sincerely hope not to spoil this conversation by butting in, but I was browsing this site and wound up reading most of this thread. This topic gets me worked up.
I’m going to skip the whole issue of whether or not this is a valid way to catch criminals, and focus instead upon the problems that this show causes. Granted, catching criminals is a good thing, but it must be weighed against the cost.
Now, I have watched this show a number of times. In fact I enjoyed it quite thoroughly until only recently. I questioned why it was that I was enjoying it, and I found that I was enjoying watching these men being humiliated. I had myself fooled. I felt justified in watching it because these guys are dirty scumbags. Well, I was a dirty scumbag for getting many kicks off of the retarded guy who got caught on multiple shows and could only utter “oops” in reaction to being caught with his hand in the cookie jar and many others besides.
I believe that most of the viewers of this show are guilty of the same. The show creates an illusion of sexual morality. It’s not genuine sexual morality (for the most part) that makes us disgusted by these guys but aesthetic sentiment. People are repulsed by the idea of the 30 year old dork, dimwit, or eminem-wannabe trying to get action from a suburban middle-class teenaged white girl. For many of us, it’s because we don’t like these men, not our concern for the well-being of the girl (the girl doesn’t exist after all) that we get an emotional high. Also, when we’re plopped down on the couch watching the tube we don’t like this middle-aged man going after the young boy. He is an outcast, and we have a natural revulsion for him. (I would argue that he is justifiably an outcast because pederasty is unnatural behavior, but when we’re watching the program it’s not our love of natural order in society that gets our emotions going but a problematic sense of self-satisfaction.) This dissimilar revulsion is good and necessary but certainly harmful if indulged like a drug.
Allow me to digress briefly, so that others may gauge better from where I am coming. Pederasts are rightly shunned by society. It is rightly deemed criminal behavior. There is no cultural relativism as in the case of heterosexual sex between post-pubescent males and females. Now, as a responsible citizen and as a man, I believe that these individuals should be shunned for the good of society. But, as a fledgling christian, I am not without my own sins and therefore I should not be the one to cast the first stone. So, the way I see it, we should follow St. Paul’s advice, which is I think to correct these people privately. To tell them that they must abandon any hope of ever indulging their urges, and only after that has failed and he refuses to be shamed and he remains unrepentant of his urgers and remains a source of disorder should he be exposed, humiliated, and removed for the sake of the community. This, of course is the ideal. The reality is very far from the ideal. Everyone is so afraid of their neighbors these days that it is nearly impossible to safeguard our communities and help others in moral crisis with such urges. And this is something that the show greatly exasperates, as somebody else pointed out earlier in the thread, by driving these deviants further underground. We’ve created a situation where it is considered a respectable opinion in polite society that no imaginable torture is too much, indeed enough, for the criminal. With our witch-hunt mentality we’re cutting off the possibilities of extending humane support to help stop people with mental disorders from becoming dangerous criminals. Thereby we’re leaving criminal deviancy as the only open pathway to the victims of predisposition and disease. A situation in which we all lose.
Now, I find it particularly hard to believe that the same people who provide and gorge upon the array of television shows depicting endless and mindless fornication as healthy behavior really care much about the emotional well-being of the truly sexually-victimized youth of America. Why do we insist upon drawing a line between young people who make bad choices about sex and “adults” who are emotionally damaged and destroyed by the same? I’m not completely sure. I think that a lot of it has to do with the imaginary construct called adolescense. But, overall it’s our crap culture and socialized education system. There may even be some jealousy on the part of some people, particularly some women, but more and more men too, who are past their prime and get a good ole’ dose of schade-freude from keeping the more youthful, attractive, vivacious, and potent (socially, not sexually) members of our society bound in adolescent-limbo. Because personality, wit, and good-taste don’t count for much these days. Adloescents are bound as victims just as much as they are bound by our good intentions when we keep them confined to uncomfortable chairs in stagnant rooms for 6 hours a day for thirteen boring years, but I digress too far.
So, my point is that the show is bad for the reason that it tends to make people believe that their moral reason is being outraged, when in fact it is an evocation of much baser sentiments. What follows from this? I don’t know, use your imagination.
“That’s all well and fine,” you say “but what about America’s parents. Certainly, they aren’t coming from the same place. They are concerned about the welfare of their children. Americans need to wake up to this growing threat.” Well, online predators certainly are a threat. I don’t dispute that. But information about the issue needs to be taken-in soberly and not through “infotainment” sources.
But, here is where I draw the proverbial line in the sand for America’s parents…
OK, your 14 year old daughters are in danger, suburban America. But, what about the 14 year old awkward-daughter of the awkward-perv who was busted on TCAP #34 in Mobile?
When I found out, once upon a time, that my buddy’s younger brothers used to hang out at the house of a guy who was busted in one of the first episodes (true story, they were friends with his son and he was busted for trying to meet a 12 year old girl) my first reaction was to make fun of them. I, a kinda intelligent, relatively mature, 21 year old (at the time) could think of no better response than to make fun of them! How cruel and absurd! They could very well have been in danger, and I made fun of them! Cruel, but not nearly as cruel, I gather, as the ninth graders in Mobile. And absurd, but not nearly as absurd as our sense of justice when we consider the price paid for an ounce of this peace-of-mind for Joe and Nancy America to be a bargain. A price, which could include the utter humiliation and shame of the creepy-predator-guy on TV’s innocent creep-kids. Because, it would be such an epic tragedy if Joe and Nancy America were to discover that little Cindy became a slut while they were busy playing golf and getting pedicures. They’d have much rather waited until after she got her diploma, a sure sign of her “maturity”, and went off to College before she began “experimenting.” Where were the schools at when all this was going on!?
Which, brings me to my final (and perhaps most cynical) point…
Its a bit of a stretch to categorize many of these guys as predators. That’s not to say that they’re not criminals, but when they materialize in front of the infamous kitchen-cams, they don’t live up to most of the associations that we put with the word sexual-predator. A few of them quite frankly appear to be border-line retarded. Many of them are obviously very immature. Very few of them have aggressive personalities. See how often these so-called predators stop, dumbfounded, like deer in the headlights, as soon as big scary Chris Hanson shows up. What predator in the wild, when it is exposed during a hunt, rolls over to have its tummy scratched or acts as if it was just looking for grass to munch on?
Well, maybe that wasn’t the most coherent rambling. Digest and enjoy.