Dating Website and the weight question...

[gravitycrash]

@BrknButterfly

The thing with “A few extra pounds” is while that may be some what acceptable, I don’t want to deal with the disappointing face when he first sees me. Like I said, isn’t like I don’t like myself or accept myself for who or what I am… I just don’t want to deal with… “Well I think you are a little more heavier then what you said on your profile”. or the “led on” factor.

So I tend to over state it. Maybe it goes with the mentality of expect and prepare for the worse but then be surprised when it isn’t… type thing.

This is why I put so much importance in candid photos. Find a picture of yourself in profile standing up or just one of you standing up.

I just went back to look at your pictures again but I guess you took them down. But they were just pictures of you sitting. You look great but as a guy I want to see the whole package. As everyone else has said, you are not BBW.

I say this because I have been burned with the less than candid pictures more than once. I don’t get the point of this at all. It wastes everybody’s time.

And if any guy would say that he is an asshole and not worth dating anyway.

[BrknButterfly]

@gravitycrash

I just went back to look at your pictures again but I guess you took them down.

The link should still work. I haven’t touch the pictures. Odd. I am going to see if I can find the most unflattering picture and post it… I tend to do that anyways on any profile I put up. A ton of good ones and one unflattering one… I think it tends to give the whole package… Lemme see what I can find.

[vandal]

Based on your pictures, I’d put you in the “few extra pounds” category. I consider BBW to be in the obese range, and you’re definitely not obese.