How many of you are there?
This is the key point.
Is there something inherently wrong with fucking on the fourth date?
This level of contact is a red flag, especially so early on. Keep that in mind for the future.
Good luck and welcome to the SDMB.
Dude was contacting you way too much and probably just wanted to boink and bounce. He sounds like a huge clowner to me, surprised you even liked him at all.
Thank you for welcoming me to the site. I thank you for the responses, some hilarious, some serious, but all helpful. Great people, great group!
Sometimes you just wanna get laid. I think women (in general) have a harder time admitting that. (For obvious reasons)
No, and isn’t the third date the standard these days? 
It’s just an answer to the question in the last sentence of the OP. Which date it was doesn’t matter. He said those sweet nice things to get her into bed.
yes he did. He’s a tool