Dear Woman video - pretty amazing

Just because other people have done it before doesn’t make it a worthwhile thing to do. Quite frankly, I thought the idea of apologizing to the other countries because Bush was elected to a second term was also pretty shallow and meaningless.

I thought my penis might be preventing me from sharing in the sensitivity and consciousness they’re conveying, so I showed it to my wife when she got home, without any comment on my part, and asked for her to share with me her insight and wisdom of her feminine energy. Her comments:

(long pause)

“This is a cult, right?”

(long pause)

“What cult is this?”

(long pause)

“Are they…are they trying to get laid?”

(shot of iceberg)

“Wait, are they actually talking about the Earth? Is the Earth the woman?”

(long pause)

“What cult is this?”

…and she said your penis looked perfectly fine, so the problem was with the video.

Until these guys apologize for the handshake rape, they’re still a bunch of misogynists in my book.

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Here’s the words:Can you pick out the ones that:

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[li]“encourage men to be simpering sycophants” and portray doing this as “enforcing workplace equality”?[/ul][/li][/quote]

Well, if you don’t think they’re simpering and sycophantic, then I doubt I’ll convince you. But statements like “I honor your deep connection to the earth”, “I honor your intuition and your profound capacity for feeling”, “I celebrate your ability to pay attention to what is here, right now. As men, our preoccupation with goals and results often has burnt us out” don’t make me think ‘these guys really understand my feminine godliness!’, they make me think ‘what a bunch of drivel’. It read, to me, as serious ass kissing and basically trying to appear deep and sensitive.

Again, the fawning and apologizing are evident in the manifesto. They’re tearing down men in order to put women on a pedestal, to convince themselves that women are naturally intuitive, profound, deep, Earth mothers (who also incidentally have no goals or desires that are on par with those of men). As for the apologizing, let me reiterate that they apologized for burning women at the stake. I couldn’t put enough greats in front of grandma to get that far back.

In any case, the workplace thing is something you brought up, not me. You said:

It seems to me that you’re saying that most men are still unable to work side by side with women. It stands to reason that since you like the video so much, you think that most women would find their work situation improved by more men acting like the simpering, sycophantic, emasculated men in the video. Otherwise why did you bring up the workplace as the place of great gender inequality?

No, I choose to denigrate because I think the video is boring, overwrought, and cheesy, as I said in my first comment. I am not misrepresenting anything, and there are no ‘factual statements’ in the video, just opinions, so I don’t know how I could possibly misrepresent those.

Just saw the video. Fuck me, what a load of old arse! I had an easier time watching 2 girls 1 cup than that shit.

Bunch of guys trying to get some pussy by pretending to be all sensitive and shit, and other crappy things chicks like. And judging by the looks of it, some of those dudes really could use the pussy, so lets hope they are successful.

I feel that your masculine and feminine energies are out of whack. It seems like you have a goal. Women don’t have goals, therefore you are unnatural and there will be repercussions.

And then we can apologize to your great-granddaughters for burning YOU at the stake!

I’d also like to add that I have a serious issue with people who present ideas as spiritual, deep, and enlightened, because they inevitably can’t take any kind of criticism. Whenever someone else disagrees with guys like these, the guys can just fall back on saying that that person is just not as enlightened and in touch with the earth as they are, and as soon as the critic sees the light they’ll obviously come around and agree with the manifesto.

This, I assume, is the basis for these guys feeling like they can speak for all men everywhere - in their minds, all men would agree with them, if only they could open their minds enough to do so. They titled their piece A Manifesto for Conscious Men, and in it they say “Among the living, many men may be unable to apologize because they remain shackled in a prison of anger, fear and shame”. They’ve neatly constructed a system where a man either agrees with them, or admits that he is unconscious, angry, fearful, and ashamed. That’s very convenient for them, since they surely don’t feel compelled to listen to men like that.

Oh, they have conveniently shoved us all into little boxes then claimed to be enlightened.

The idea that I have “intuition” is absolutely hilarious. There are walls with more claim to intuition than I have.

You might want to consider the amazing possibility that not only is the world full of people with different opinions from yours, but that some of those opinions might actually have been formed out of an honest examination of the facts.

I have to admit, speaking just for ymself, that a cheesy Youtube video that implies women aren’t good at math is not strikingly impressive. They seem to be insulting the intelligence of all the women I love and admire. But that’s just me, lacking a feminine spirit and all that.

I am so insulted by this video!. How dare they generalize about women like that. Not all of us are sensitive earth mothers in touch with our feelings. Some of us do use data and rational thinking to make decisions. Women can also be aggressive and confrontational. I don’t want to be worshiped and revered for some stupid feminine energy. I want people to acknowledge that I am an intelligent person with a scientific mind that can be just as explotative and condescending as any man. Grrrr…HATEHATEHATEHATEHATE HATE.

(Disclaimer: I tried 3 times but only managed to get through about 30 seconds total before having to get up and hit something)

I think that there should be a companion video called “hello man” that’s about eight seconds long and only says “Dear man, yes I will be happy to cook you a juicy ribeye and then blow you.”

I think we can get a real dialog of the sexes going here.

No deal. You have to have an insulting load of twaddle about wolves and drum circles and possibly James Dobsonian shower advice. THEN it’d be even.

I apologize on their behalf.

Its just “that” time again if you know what I mean. You know how it goes. Crazy emotions. Fear, anger, total irrationality. You can’t think straight. You do all sorts of crazy shit. Yard work gets attacked. All of sudden you’re rebuilding your kitchen. Stuff like that. But don’t worry, April 15th will be here before you know it and we can all settle down again.

I bet its your unfeminine goals fouling up your connection with the Earth Mother. bad Woman! bad!

I rather liked this part:

"I had to write that letter to your mother, and and I had to tell the judge that it was you. I had to sell the car and go to Florida because that’s just my way of saying . . . that I love you.

I had to call you at the crack of dawn, and list the times that I’ve been wrong. That’s just my way of saying . . . that I’m sorry."

Umm, wait . . . my mistake . . . that was a Laurie Anderson song bleeding through the speakers. In my defense, it was hard to tell the difference.

Oh come on, you know you have an ‘intuitive sense of how to heal our planet and make it thrive’. Why won’t you share it with the rest of us!

Not wolves. Wolves are cool. Allowing any coolness whatsoever would make the counter-video unfair.