TOTALLY agree…it’s all a balance, love, trust, and in our case, putting other little beings’ interest in front of your own, and when they grow up and leave the nest, being able to look at the other person across the breakfast table and be happy they are there…
My brother is a lawyer.
He has handled the divorces of many of his friends that expressed doubts before getting married.
He and his wife, and I and my wife, never felt any doubts. He has been married longer than I and I have been married 41 years now and still going strong.
Doubts are a red flag. Any there are lots of couples who had no doubts about getting married.
Just sayin…