DFW dopers, would anyone be willing to let me cry on their shoulders?

Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share
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And I mean that literally.
I’ve been through a grief workshop and grief counseling. They helped, but looking back on them what really helped was having a place where I could talk about Bob and cry with permission.

And I’d much rather do that with people I feel like are relatively intelligent and can get my sense of humor. IOW, dopers.
So, would anyone like to get together this Saturday? I’d rather it be in the HEB/Grapevine/Colleyville area, Irving or Arlington.

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:frowning:
I wish I was close. I know exactly what you mean. I’m still actively grieving my Daddy. My family and friends are done with me doing this. They think It’s been too long, that I should get over it. I will never get ‘over’ it. Don’t let anyone tell you how to grieve. Do it at your own pace. Writing in a journal helps me get the words off my heart. I still feel the pain and I still cry, but I don’t feel the need to talk so much. I’m so, so sorry for your loss.

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Same for the anger one might feel. I still rage inside at my son, while at the same time grieving his loss. Both anger and grief are tapering off, but still present and easily brought to the surface.

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Oh, my god. That must be so hard. I remember you posting about your sons death. Kids are supposed to outlive their parents. It must a particularly painful grief. I continue to be sorry for your loss.

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I could maybe do something Saturday.

Do you know Alley Cats, in Hurst? Would that be an okay place to meet?

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I have not been to Alley Cats, but I know where it is. I would be fine going there. Have you been? They have food, right?

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Yes, they have food & bar. On Sundays, they have freeroll poker games, as well. I can get us a bowling lane if you’d like to play a round or two while we chat.

I go there all the time with my family.

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So is there a particular time that is good for you, Sarabellum? I’m wide open

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Okay, sounds like we are decided on 6PM. We’re going to meet for dinner first, at Hurst Alley Cats. They have a little bistro cafe called 820 towards the back.

Anyone else care to join us? The more the merrier!

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They have bowling, mini golf, rock climbing, go karts, rides, batting cages, laser tag, arcade games, and rides (a small rollercoaster, himalaya, tea cups, etc.) So plenty to do, activity-wise.

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If anyone is coming, I’ll be wearing this shirt: Here Be Dragons