Mods - I really mean for there to be a General Question here, but if it turns out that there is not please reroute this to the appropriate forum. I tried, but I may not have succeeded.
While reading Slashdot this afternoon, specifically this article, I noticed that a few people mentioned depression as a possible factor in school violence.
Also, having recently been diagnosed for depression, I have been looking back on my youth and discovered that even at 13 or 14 I had all the ‘symptoms’ of depression. I mentioned to a friend recently that I wished that someone had noticed this in me when I was young. If someone had just told me that the way I felt was not normal, and that there were ways (medications, therapy) to feel better, I would certainly have jumped at the offer. However, at that time depression was just for grown-ups. Any kid who wasn’t apple-cheeked and happy was considered to just be having ‘growing pains’ (hormones, not wanting to grow up, etc.).
I feel confident in saying that many of the things I did (I was a bad kid) would not have happened. Many, many of the awful fights with my family, the running away, the lashing out with violence. I sincerely feel like help for my depression sooner would have made my life choices MUCH different, and my life now would be completely different.
In addition, I have a 12 year old son who is bullied. I know there is no way for him to completely avoid this fate, as he has red hair (Hey, Cheeto!!), has learned to be a smart ass from his mom, is small and skinny. He also sticks up for the other underdogs out of a sense of camaraderie, which of course leads to more bullying.
Factor in the fact that depression can be hereditary, and you’ve got one concerned bunnymama on your hands.
So I wondered, does anyone know whether any of these kids had a history of depression, or are/were they actively in depression when they did what they did? If so, were they being treated for it somehow, or were they just written off (as I was) as being in the 'terrible teens?
Thanks in advance,
3Bunnymama