At my tram stop on the way to work each morning, there’s a bunch of fat-arsed, slack-jawed, moronic kids who also board to get to school about four stops away. In that short time period (max 4 minutes) they generally cause much disruption and set about offending as many people as they can with their vile language, their loud music and their stupendously pathetic imitations of gangstas. The school they go to is classified as a ‘Special School’ for behavioural problems I believe, and they go about living up to its credo with especial vigour. :rolleyes: They epitomise the definition of socially retarded…even though they’d probably test normal on an IQ test. I mean, really…wearing your cap backwards and donning WuTang shit went out last century didn’t it??
But I digress: On the same tram there’s a couple of littler kids who go to the local primary school…another four stops past the fuckheads’ school. One of them, a young fella probably aged about 10 and quiet as a mouse was there this morning sitting opposite me. As the ‘gang’ were about to get off at their stop, they started heckling and flicking the little guy around the head, generally being fuckwits and giving him a hard time. I noticed this as I peered above the top of my newspaper (I don’t have an IPod so I hide behind me’ news every morning!!), and when they did it again, I said, “OI”.
Apparently they didn’t hear me, so I said it again, with gusto, "OI, YOU LOT, LEAVE HIM ALONE, RIGHT NOW YA HEAR???"
They heard me then all right, so did the rest of the tram it seems, because I saw people smiling and nodding at my action.
The bunch of them (about 7 in total) got off the tram quietly and meekly, but when they got to the roadside they became all brave and smartarsed again and stuck their fists up, banged on the windows and tried to look threatening. Funny stuff really.
Now yeah, I sorta feel I did the right thing at the time, but I’m more worried now that the kid will be MORE vulnerable in the future because of my actions. When they were harrassing him, he just sat there saying nothing and not giving them any reason to ark up. And maybe they’ve been doing this to him for a while with no further escalation, so he’s learned to ‘live’ with the bullying knowing that the freaks get off the tram before him and there’s enough people around to prevent it going further. I didn’t want to embarrass him by asking questions, I just asked, “Hey, you ok?”. He said, “Yeah”. And that was that.
But while I’m on that tram most mornings and will CERTAINLY be keeping an eye out for future fuckups (even though I suspect the cretinous crew will behave when they see me get aboard now knowing what a fishwife I am ), what happens to this kid if he encounters the gang on his way HOME from school? Have I made his life more difficult and more likely to be seriously bullied by speaking out?
Advice please.